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no boobs?
okay so i like boys..but boys like girls with boobs..yeah i dont have boobs.
thats the problem. boys dont like me because of my invisible boobs. NO SERIOUSLY IM SO FLAT CHESTED!
ughh i dont want to STUFF. i dont want to be a fake. i want to be MYSELF, but what if MYSELF is no boobs.
please help
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i never understood why some guys like girls with big chests...they can be quite gross if they're too big. and girl believe me, you wanna find a guy that will go past your physical appearance. i'm not very big uptop either...i'm the smallest out of all my friends and a lot of people i know and yeah, i used to get self concious (sp) about it...especially in swim suits and stuff. but since i've been with my boyfriend(who i'll add is quite good looking, sweet and popular *not adding it for the effect, just adding it to emphasize that even people like him aren't always shallow*), i could care less because i know he's not interested in me from the neck down and that he really likes me for me. and i would advise not stuffing because you never know what people can see if you bend over or spill something, and i tried the whole *buy bra's bigger than what i am* and all it did was look funny in the locker room when i was changing or when i was in a swim suit and was *no longer that big* and i accepted the fact that i'd rather be small than huge and always have people staring *not only boys, but old nasty men* and i won't have back problems *which a lot of women have with big boobs*
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Guys who are only interested in boobs arent really interested in the person with them. Not every guy is like that just immature ones who think there stuff dont stink. Be true to your self and the right person will come along boobs or any other part does not define who someone is.If anyone tells you diffrent then they dont have much to offer and arent worth it.Just keep being you you wont have to change because the guy who best suits you will be attracted and like you for you.
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Yes there is nothing you can do to change the way that you are right now so you sould enjoy the way God mad you and be confident in yourself because like the person told you earlier guys really love confidence. Show your personality and style. And, you could one day give bloussant a try even though I heard it works in rare cases and in the further future plastic surgery is an option salene is safer now for people than the original silicone but if you get comfortable in your own skin I doublt you'll want to.
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I wouldn't worry about it too much b/c not all guys worry about that trust me. And if they do they're not worth your time b/c they're being way too superficial. Buuut if you're still worried about it... padded bras can kinda help and you're still urself :-)
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"Yourself" is not no boobs. "Yourself" is a caring person with unique interests and talents. I don't know you. But I do know that no matter how big your boobs are, they're not enough to keep a guy interested.
Find things you love to do. Smile. Enjoy life. Have confidence in yourself. Guys notice that more than anything else.
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the only guys that look for girls just because they have boobs are shallow assholes and you dont need to hook up with them.
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