Gender: Female
Location: Earth... like everyone else
Age: 23
Member Since: January 29, 2007
Answers: 4
Last Update: January 30, 2007
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14 FEMALE this is long but please take time to read and answer it!!
So last dance was HOMECOMING and I didn't have a date but I went with friends and it was really really fun...it didn't bother me as much that I didn't have a date because I still had one dance to fall back on and have a date. I know it isn't everything but I really wanted a date for the dance. Sometimes I get really mad because I don't and just have to cry.
I asked a question earlier on how to be outgoing and talk to guys and make other friends. I know that's why I don't have a date, I'm way too shy.
But still doesn't anyone notice me??
I know I know...put yourself out there...BUT I DON"T KNOW HOW!
Why can't I get a date?? I have only had 1 actual boyfriend he asked me, I was in 8th grade he was in 6th... I know pethetic right? But I was really happy, but that fadded and I broke it off.
Anyone give me advice on how to make myself feel beter??
I think I'm depressed about not having a date (I feel worthless)
Not having started my period (therefore I'm flat and it is hard find things for dances that don't show that I'm flat)
I feel left out
I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S WRONG!
HELP ME GET A DATE FOR NEXT YEAR (even though it is a while away)
Help me get my self esteem up about not starting my period so therefore I'm flat (I feel like that is sometimes why guys don't like me) {im not totally flat i just feel that way i do have some cush} [i have not but either so it makes it hard to find clothes] (im really really small...people tell and ask if im annorexic...IM NOT...rumors get passed around like that all the time)
SELF ESTEEM IS ON EMPTY!!!
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I know how you feel. I was one of the smaller girls in my class when I was your age and was really quiet and shy and I used to feel bad about that. What always worked for me was having that one best friend to be able to hang out with and just have fun being ourselves. She of course was more social than I was and little by little helped me come out of that fear of meeting new people. And before I knew it had met some great people and even one guy who would always want to know what I was thinking when I was so quiet. So my advice... be yourself and don't let others get to you. It might be hard at first but it WILL get easier. As for putting yourself out there, try something like a study group with classmates you don't know to well and see what happens. If you're that shy it's a good place to start
:-) Good Luck
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okay so i like boys..but boys like girls with boobs..yeah i dont have boobs.
thats the problem. boys dont like me because of my invisible boobs. NO SERIOUSLY IM SO FLAT CHESTED!
ughh i dont want to STUFF. i dont want to be a fake. i want to be MYSELF, but what if MYSELF is no boobs.
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I wouldn't worry about it too much b/c not all guys worry about that trust me. And if they do they're not worth your time b/c they're being way too superficial. Buuut if you're still worried about it... padded bras can kinda help and you're still urself :-)
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I am wearing a kind of a fire-truck red dress to an event, what is a good color nail polish to wear with it. NOT a matching shade of red, or pink. Oh and I am wearing red shoes too (link)
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When I wear red I usually stick to black or silver nail polish with a good shiny topcoat
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Does those atni-poof shampoos really work? I've been using the cream and shampoo for a year and my hair didn't even go slightly less poofy! I really want to leave my hair down! Or is all the shamppoos the same and that they just put them in different bottles to trick people and get mroe money? (link)
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I have curly hair and go through the same thing with those shampoos. Sunsilk and Vive pro work pretty good. Usually though you have to get the whole shampoo-conditioner-leave in cream for it to work. And if you flat-iron use some thermasilk cream on the ends to keep it from getting too crazy... Hope it works for u :-)
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