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Do u think he'll like me ever again?


Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 12:33 pm

See at the moment I really like this guy Ryan we've known each other since last summer and someone told me he liked him which I could tell he did the only thing we did that summer was talk and just have the best time togther how we met is this group thing in the summer where we all met up everyday now that it's over I've liked him but now I can tell he doesn't like me anymore but I see him every day in some classes which I'm a freshman and he's a sophmore we like never talk anymore which makes me really sad now another girl from the summer group likes him but she goes to a diffrent school. And we talk sour him which at the moment the girl and Ryan keep talking through text and calls so after yesterday which I was crying I decided I let him ...

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I miss being single...


Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 11:23 am

To begin with, I love my boyfriend...we always have a great time together and he is my best friend. He's the only guy I've ever done stuff more then kissing with and I've lost my virginity to him (and he lost his to me). This morning I woke up really happy because we had a date last night and it was really fun. But then I checked my facebook, and everyone else updated their status about them hanging out with friends and my best friend sent me a text and said she missed hanging out with me...I'm so confused, because I LOVE hanging out with my boyfriend, I'd rather hang out with him then anyone else, but at the same time I miss hanging out with my friends. I feel like my friends are just like "oh, she's always with her boyfriend now, she...

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All my friends do is party.


Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 10:20 am

18/f

My friends have never been like this all of high school. When I was in 9th grade I drank a lot, but I don't do that at all anymore. I mean I still do sometimes, but only at like a big party or something. My friendsdo every weekend. Friday and Saturday. And it's not even at like real parties it's like them and a few really ugly guys. I don't know why there doing this! It's just so immature and annoying. My one friend has had sex with like 8 different guys in the past three months, the other just lost her virginity to her boyfriend that she was only dating a month, and then cheated on him a week later. My other friend just lost her virginity to some guy she didn't even know. And two of them have been trying pot too.
...

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No Sleep Its Killing Me As We Speak


Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 5:14 am

15 F Canada

Hey, I really hope you can help and follow what Im getting at It would mean a lot to me.

I'm having troubles sleeping, I CAN'T EVER SLEEP .
I could stay awake all night and never sleep (just like tonight) I'm very tired but I can't sleep. I will go to lay down and I'll get all paranoid and I will hear things, and I get so scared I almost hyper ventalate sometimes, I hide under the covers all night, I always need my pet cat in the room, and I still can't sleep, when I go to sleep i always have to cover my ears and have a light on of some sort because I get so scared. I dont know why Im scared though!? Like its gotten to the point where I don't expect to really be asleep till about 4 or 5 am. P...

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first kiss


Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 4:51 am

16/f

Honestly, I'm not trying to sound conceited but I know guys think I'm attractive. I've just had really low self-esteem for the past few years, and barely flirt with anyone.

I was at a party, and this guy kept trying to make-out with me.
(Oh right, it was my first real kiss)
I kissed him, but I wouldn't make-out with him because I was scared I was going to be bad. How do I make sure I can be a good kisser, HELP

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This guy I have liked for over a year now


Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 4:49 am

16/f

I have liked my friend for over a year now. Almost two years. We're really close...or we were. He's 18 though. I've known him since I was a freshman and he was a junior. I'm a junior now and he's in college. He left to go to college like last week.
In September we told each other we liked each other and all that. We wouldn't go out because he was gonna leave and all that. We would talk all the time and then it went on to the sweet stuff like he cares about me and could picture marrying me, ect. So before we even told each other how we felt I was crazy about him. I had a boyfriend and I still couldn't get over him. So pretty much, I liked the guy so much. I don't want to say love because I'm never too sure but he'...

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Is he genuinely hitting on me?


Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 4:28 am

17/f
*It would be great to get a guy's opinion*

One of my good guy friend's consistently (and very cute-ly) hits on me..usually through texts and the internet. He's witty, and it's very upfront. It's very, very cute. However, I don't know if it's genuine or if he's just being cute and having fun about it.

I know he thinks I'm attractive. I'm very hard to get as I don't flirt with just anyone... (..Trying not to hard to sound concieted. Oh, and I'm not a slut)

He goes to a lot of parties, and I know hooks up with other girls.

I don't know! I'm so confused, maybe he just hits on me because sometimes I can be playful back, or I'm not sure if he just gets a good laugh out of it....

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birth control pills and blood test??


Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 2:23 am

hi, im a 21 year old female i come from a very conservative family, im thinking soon about starting to take birth control and i still live at home so i cannot let my parents know about this...i used to have increased heart beat rates during a while, and i was taking betablockers (pills to lower your heart beat)..i am not taking them anymore since apparently the problem has stopped, but due to prevention from other stuff i have to take blood tests every 6 months....so i have some questions.

1. if i take birth control and get a blood test done, (general blood test like checking usual stuff glucose, thyroid gland, lipids and stuff like that...) will any of the typical things checked on blood test be altered?? MY dad is a doctor ...

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Why cant I get my life together? How can I do it? Major issues


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 11:24 pm

Oh my god, I'm sorry this is monstrously long but my life is just in complete shambles right now and everything is only getting worse. I have absolutely nobody else to turn to right now so please help.

I'm 16 and ever since I was 12, I've been procrastinating and it only seems to get worse every year. Now I'm a junior, and its really embarrassing for me to say but last marking period I failed 4 classes because of my inability to do work. I mean I know I am a smart person (despite the grades) and when I put my mind to it I've always gotten near perfect or perfect grades (I'm a big perfectionist). Sometimes to my own pitfall.. cause I'd hand a project a day late to get it perfect and get the same score as someone who did medioc...

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is this supposed to happen after sex?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 11:14 pm

19/f

the other night my boyfriend and i were having sex and we did it for about an hour and towards the end i didn't feel "wet" anymore and it started to hurt. I figured that it was just like that because we had sex for a long time but i still feel abnormally dry down there. is this normal?

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Lactose Intolerance?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 9:40 pm

Today, I had a slice of chocolate cake...it was quite good so I had another...then another haha
so these three slices gave me the worse cramps and I found myself sitting on the toliet afterwards. This was a boxed cake recipe (maybe there was dry milk in it...idk) and we used store bought frosting.

My mom is lactose intolerant...does it sound like I am, too? Because believe me...I've eaten more food than I did today and haven't been in pain like that. I think I can't handle lactose. What do you think? Besides the fact that I made a pig of myself...this I know! lol



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am I freaking out for no reason?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 9:14 pm

Hey you guys I just wanted to know if you think I am freaking out or not! ok so everytime I text a boy (that I like) and he don't answer or when I say heyy and he says hey but than don't answer back I freak out and I think he don't like me. Am I over reacting? I also freak out and think they don't wanna talk to me when I say hey and they reply hi, am I over reacting about all of this? -thanks Madison 13/f

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AWWHH tear tear :'(


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 5:54 pm

WEll im gunna get started i think my boyfriend is gunna brake up with me because i only kissed him once and we have been going out for a long time now and i want ot but i cant im shy help need tips


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My ridiculous amounts of baggage + new guy = huh?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 3:17 pm

Hi, 23/f. There's a new guy in my life (23/m). He's an old friend from high school with whom I recently reconnected.
I'm basically a walking pile of baggage. I have some health problems; I've been cheated on, I've been emotionally, verbally, and physically abused by past boyfriends, and I know I haven't healed. I have PTSD to the point that, even though I have a protection order against him and it's been months since I got away from the physical abuser, I still can't go to the grocery store without having anxiety attacks.
This new guy has been hurt, too, but not to the extent that I have (he's a sweet, sensitive fella), and we kind of established last night that we have the same fears about relationships. We're both afraid o...

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Ridding Insecurities/Depression.


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 3:03 pm

18/F

For the past few years I've felt insecure about EVERYTHING. From my relationships, to my body, to my personality, etc.
I know that I'm a pretty girl and I know I have a great personality but a voice in my head keeps telling me I could be better.. which is affecting my relationships.
I'm a very sensitive person so I take everything to heart, which I think is my downfall. I just don't know how to stop saying negative things about myself, it's just always on my mind.
I have also cut in the past because I don't like who I am. I've tried to talk to God to help me stop cutting but it's very hard to speak to someone who doesn't directly talk back, if you know what I mean.

Can someone please ...

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Fitted Mannequins.


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 2:52 pm

I love the wired mannequins like this:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=190428409735&hlp=false&rvr_id=195048654200&crlp=1_263602_304652&UA=M*S%3F&GUID=3ca436621290a06c1d946d04ff1c1bed&itemid=190428409735&ff4=263602_304652#ht_1952wt_754

I want one of those but I would like it to be my body type/size so that I can actually put my clothes on it.
Are there any websites/stores out there that have that? (I tried googling but had no luck.)

Thank you!

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Panic attack while high.


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 2:49 pm

18/F

I've been smoking weed for a while and I have had a few panic attacks while high. (Usually from smoking too much.)

But the other night I was in the car with my boyfriend and we were high. He put an angry/depressing Eminem song on and I started to feel really anxious and I came very close to having a panic attack.. Until he changed the music to Bob Marley (my favorite) which then made me feel at ease and I was able to breathe. The Bob Marley song was over and another angry song came on and I felt anxious again.

I'm just wondering if anyone knows of any psychological studies on listening to certain music while you're high and how they effect you?

Thanks! :)

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Is giving him a second chance the right thing to do?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 2:28 pm

15 f

I won't get into full detail, so it won't be so long. Well, January 5th was on my anniversary with my boy friend, it's been a year now..well, apparently he gave a note to my ex friend..( He use to like her before we started dating, she was the one who brought us together.) He said that he still had feelings for her, and all of this. She told me before he could, and I blew up over it. He told me it was to resolve everything with her, he wanted her to say that she didn't like him in that way, ( which she didn't like him in that way). Now, my whole family believes that he's a jerk and they hate him. I love him very much, and he begged me to not break up with him, he says he loves me and he doesn't want to be with anyone els...

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keep making same slutty mistake


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 11:35 am

Everytime I get drunk I do outargeously stupid sexual thongs with people I know and each time I regret and am ashemed but then I still do It the next time and bi never learn but I always regreat!!
What is wrong with me? Why do I always have to do sexual things with guys evthat I know! Even tho I always regreat and feel ashemd the next day
Why don't I learn?


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anyone answer! 2012


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 11:19 am

Heyy
everyone cant stop going on about 2012! its scaring me, they say world will end. because all the weird stuff is happening.. the illuminati is becoming exposed through almost all the celebrities, 1000 blackbirds have dropped dead, over 100,000 fishes have just randomly died. Alot of people have started to sell their soul.. whats going on!!?!?!

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