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first kiss
16/f
Honestly, I'm not trying to sound conceited but I know guys think I'm attractive. I've just had really low self-esteem for the past few years, and barely flirt with anyone.
I was at a party, and this guy kept trying to make-out with me.
(Oh right, it was my first real kiss)
I kissed him, but I wouldn't make-out with him because I was scared I was going to be bad. How do I make sure I can be a good kisser, HELP
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Kissing is a very personal emotion and is generally used to show someone you love them or care. Kissing someone is one thing and being good at it is another.
Is the moment right? In order to be a good kisser you should know when the perfect moment to kiss him is. Timing has a very vital role when it comes to being a good kisser. Make sure he is looking and expecting a kiss as well and you have your timing perfect in order to become a good kisser.
Add variation to it. Some people simply do not know how to kiss and the best way they find this out is when the guy tends to push them away whom they are kissing. Remember while you are kissing you need to add variation to it. You simply can't be in the same position throughout the whole time. You can add a variation or combination of various things such as adding some tongue action, changing face positions, your rhythm etc in order to be a good kisser and get the best out of the situation.
Never ask him. Some people tend to ask guys if they're good or not. Never ask him if you are a good kisser or not. If he enjoyed your kiss then he would be willing to do it again or maybe tell you instantly after you are done with the kiss. Asking him is not only cheap but might spoil your chances as well as any future dates. Remember being a good kisser is all in your mind. If you think you are a good kisser than you are and if you think you aren't a good kisser than you aren't.
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Follow his lead and try things you wanna try. You can't worry about being good or not because every guy is different and likes different things and so make it fun and don't worry about things.
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