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Boyfriend got asked to prom? I didn't
Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 4:58 pm
Hi i'm a sophomore and my boyfriend is also a sophomore and we've been dating for a year and a half. Only juniors and seniors are allowed to go to prom, but they can take freshman or sophomores as dates. This girl who is my friend and is also my boyfriends friend asked him to go to prom with her, but he didn't know what to say. So he asked me if he should or not. And I dont really want him to go with her because she always flirts with him. And I just don't feel comfortable with him going with her. So I guess my question is... Is it okay to tell him that I don't want him to go or is that too controlling? Because i don't want to be a mean girlfriend who won't let her boyfriend do anything, but I just feel bad if I don't let him go. Thanks!
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Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 4:15 pm
this guy i liked, i dont really like him no more, i like this other guy, but how can i tell the first that i dont like him no more.
- NO suggestions about passing notes in class or anything.
- i'm telling him online.
thanks xx
btw im 13/f (if that helps)
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should i still try
Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 2:19 pm
Okay. so i was at the movies and this really hott kid asked me for my number, so i gave it to him. he texted me later that night and everything. The next day i asked him if he wanted to hang out and stuff. however we couldnt. I still texted him like trying to get to know him but now im afraid he thinks im annoying. I sent him a text last night saying "call me tomrrow" should i still try to talk to him if he doesnt call?
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Steven...
Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 1:22 pm
Okay I MIGHT like this kid named Steven. I stayed back and he's in my grade now. He stayed back a long long time ago in like the 2nd grade so he's 8 days older then me and I can't like him. When I mean cant i seriosly cannot like him. Im not the most prettiest kid OR the most populariest now. Dont tell me I probably look fine because i know i dont so dont bother.. Steven also has a girlfriend and they go out like everyother week its pretty gay but Olivia already thinks i like him when I keep saying No i dont... no, and a bunch of other reasons and Stevens awsome and deserve so much better. I cant tell him that cause we talk but were not good good friends. Olivia also get wicked jelose really easily. Yesturday at lunch steven sat next to me ...
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Was this a DATE???
Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 12:23 pm
Ok, so this girl I like asked me to go to a play with her one night. I was just talking to her on AIM and she says "Hey, do you want to go see Le Miserables with me...?" I was like "Sure...?" So we went to the play and everything and we talked some...But I wanna know if this was a date or not..Please tell...
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Boys
Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 3:07 am
My ex boyfriend is coming back to my neighborhood this summer and all i can think about is whats gonna happen.But also i like someone in my school and my friends say he like me back but whenever it's me and him or getting ready to be just me and him i always get scared and run or stop talking cause i don't wanna get hurt again.so how can i get my ex out of my head and the guts to handle my crush?
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..ex...
Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 1:14 am
about a month ago me and my ex started flirting and I started to really like him too, and then he got a new girlfriend but he still liked me a litle. Today I was with my best friend and he called me and said "...i dont see any connection your bing to obbsessive..." I was so sad. What can i do to make him believe im not obbsessive and just care about him and love him a lot?
thanks again for reading... =/
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miserable.
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 11:51 pm
I like my boyfriend a lot but he seems very apathetic about the relationship to the point where I'm craving affectionate touch, etc. What should I do?
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boys boys boys
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 11:33 pm
good god, where do i begin. okay well first off, well call him bob. me and bob were really good friends, then we went off to different schools. a few months ago i use to like him and i'm pretty sure he liked me. but now i miss it, and i want to win him back. but how can i do that? we go to different schools, and when i see him in his school we are with different people. i'll say hi, but thats about it. I really liked him, i'm going to be at his school next year, but this summer i wanna win his heart. there are always girls going after him, but i really like him, and he did like me. i wanna get that back. any help?
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this one boy<3
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 11:13 pm
Okay so yes i'm 14 and people say your to young to be in love. But I know I am. Me and my friend Nathan have liked each other for the longest time...over a year! But I dont live by him anymore. He tells me that he loves me and that he cares for me and no matter what he loves me...but he has a g.f and he said his name on myspace (I think I found my love) was about me..but i told him i didnt beleive him because he has a g/f and unless he put my name there i wouldnt know or not. Then I saw his away message on aim today saying that he was talking to his LOVE amber...his g.f and i just sat there and in my head said (I knew he didnt mean it) I dont think he ever loved me even tho he says he does...
what should I do "/
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unrequited love
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 9:31 pm
his name is adam and he's one of my best friends--and i love him. i've known pretty much all along he never had those feelings for me back, but six months ago i told him how i felt for him. it was a little awkward at first, but we got over it and managed to keep our friendship. i told him i didn't ever want him to hesitate when telling me anything, especially about his love life or whatever. now, five months later, i'm not so sure i want to hear it anymore. last night he told me he liked our best friend, lauren. we're all mutual best friends and that's what makes it so hard. he told me he wanted me to tell him what i thought of it and if i was okay with it. i think i was so shocked and hurt at first i didn't realize it was true, so i said i...
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stuck in the middle
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 8:50 pm
okay so theres 2 boys that i like, one of them is my boyfriend of a little over a year. The other is this wicked cute kid who i am just friends with. i recently started hanging out with the cute kid without my boyfriend knowing..i n its not right but i had to. well my dad tells me he likes the new kid better and so do my mom. also wenever i ask my b/f to go places he sez he dnt like goin out and the new kid has gone ice skating and to laser quest with me and he sent me a flower on valentines day when my boyfriend didn't. which boy should i keep around?
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My boyfriend and I stay together or should i leave him
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 8:46 pm
Iam 20 years old and my bf is 21 years old. We have been together for 1 year now. My boyfriend is constantly leaving me then coming back to me. he tell me that he doesnt love me anymore, iam not pretty enough and he doesnt want anything to do with me but when i cut him out of my life and move on he says he loves me and he made a mistake and he wants me back. He wants me when he wants me. He downs me sometimes but then he will say the oppisite. He lies to me he never puts my feelings first. The question is should i leave him
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random cute guy
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 7:49 pm
14/f well i really need advice soon please..Well on Friday afterschool..i was hanging with my friends as always, and this guy comes..and i never met him in my life..but he kept flirting with me and asking me whats my number and if i wanted to "bone". (He was just joking though,just to make me laugh) he was really cute..he kept asking me out and for my number but i was too shy, i wanted to tell him yes..but i didnt.i think on he is coming to where i hang out next frieday...so i need advice,do u think he was serious when he said he wanted to bone...cuz i thought he was joking but i wasnt sure, please give me tips on how to flirt with a guy and show him that i like him..in a sexy way.thanks in advance
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Am I nuts?
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 7:49 pm
When I was 5 I lived down the street about a mile from my cousins Paige and Chase, and she lived directly across the street from this boy named Steven, who was Chase's best friend. I always had a crush on Steven, right up until I moved when I was 10 (6 years ago). I went to church with my cousin on Sunday and I saw Steven there, cute as ever, and I caught his eye and smiled at him and he smiled at me and I saw him watching me a few times, but I didn't get a chance to talk to him. I still like him, eventhough I haven't seen him in 3 or 4 years and haven't talked to him since I moved. Am I nuts for still liking him, should I ask him out, and can anyone think of a way to go about asking him out so I don't sound like a crazy stalker?
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Won't ask me out
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 7:16 pm
Yesterday this guy admitted to me he used to really like me, and I asked him if he still did and he said, "eh i do in a way, its hard to explain though" what could he mean by that? My friend asked him why he doesn't just ask me out, and he said, "mainly its cause i know she doesn't like me and im just plain scared of relationships" i dooooo like him though. how can i get him to ask me out & not be scared of relationships?
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Love takes work vs. YOU WERE MADE FOR ME!
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 6:40 pm
Do you believe that people are "made" for each other. (so to speak) That there is a fish in the sea for everyone...and you're just waiting to meet them. Or do you believe that love takes work, and that there cannot possible be love at first sight and fait plays no hand in it?
thanks =]
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best gift for a guy
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 6:29 pm
my boyfriend's birthday is like really soon and i do not know what to get him!! it is really important to get him something because he gets me alot of stuff.. anyway what can i get him?
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my boyfriend.
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 6:12 pm
well ok lets see im 16/f and im in my first relationship... but the thing is that im not allowed to date. and i told my cousin and she's proud of me that i told her and that im able to confide in her and now she can trust me. well she said that i should tell my brother so that he can also trust me instead of him getting mad and finding out through my myspace because it says there im in a relationship and my b/f is number on my top 8.. but im scared to tell my brother because he'll get mad... should i really tell him?
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what to do?!
Posted Tuesday February 20 2007, 4:28 pm
So i'm generally considered a 'good' girl.. even prudish by some of my less closer guy friends. But last night at a party, i went to second base with a guy friend who's interested in me... it was my first time and in retrospect it was a really really stupid idea. looking back, i dont even know why i did it!! and now i dont know what to do.
I dont want to seem 'easy' or anything and i definitely dont want to be used. My other guy friend said not to believe him when he said that he doesnt care that im not that sexually active. It's just awkward to see my guy friend now, especially when he wants to go out with me and i dont know if i want to... hes not very attractive but he has a great personality and i dont want to seem s...
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