Do you believe that people are "made" for each other. (so to speak) That there is a fish in the sea for everyone...and you're just waiting to meet them. Or do you believe that love takes work, and that there cannot possible be love at first sight and fait plays no hand in it?
christina answered Tuesday February 20 2007, 7:21 pm: I agree with both. There is someone out there for everyone, but the relationship takes work to keep the love going strong & healthy. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
Xenolan answered Tuesday February 20 2007, 6:55 pm: Love doesn't necessarily take any work at all. However, RELATIONSHIPS take work.
Love can happen fast, and sometimes "love at first sight" is actually real. However, it cannot last if both people involved aren't willing or able to put in effort. Relationships require understanding, compromise, sacrifice, consideration, and trust - all of which are not always easy to give, and in fact can be brutally hard sometimes.
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