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Won't ask me out
Yesterday this guy admitted to me he used to really like me, and I asked him if he still did and he said, "eh i do in a way, its hard to explain though" what could he mean by that? My friend asked him why he doesn't just ask me out, and he said, "mainly its cause i know she doesn't like me and im just plain scared of relationships" i dooooo like him though. how can i get him to ask me out & not be scared of relationships?
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Scared of relationships? I don't buy it. Sounds to me like he's afraid to get close to people, because he's lost a lot of people he really loved or felt attached to, and doesn't want to go through with it again. Maybe he's never really had a serious relationship & he doesn't know how to act? Maybe his girlfriend did something like cheat or break up with him & he was hurt? The possibilities are endless. I guess what I'm trying to say is, you can't MAKE him ask you out, but you can't MAKE him tell you...he's gotta trust you before he can tell you why he's so afraid of relationships. If you want to make a move, just let him know you're always there for him, and you'll help him out through his hard times.
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I'm going to advise you to do something that may be a wee bit drastic, but it will produce GUARANTEED results.
Pick a moment, preferably when you're alone with him. Then proceed with the following conversation:
You: "Remember how you told me that you used to really like me, and you still do, but it's hard to explain?"
Him: "Yes."
You: "Let me explain how I feel about you."
Then KISS him.
Give him one right on the lips, about two seconds in duration. Then pull away, look him in the eyes, and say:
"Your turn."
Like I said, guaranteed results will follow. They may not be the results you want, but rest assured you WILL get him talking.
Or, if you're lucky, you'll get him kissing you back, and then talking.
(if you do follow this advice, please let me know how it turns out!)
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If he doesn't think you like him, change his mind. Ask him out or make a move.
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Tell him that you're interested but if he doesnt want to rush into anything that he can take his time. Pretty much just start hanging out with him more and more until he's really comfortable around you, and things'll work out in time.
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If you wanna have a real relationship with this guy you have to go to him and tell him you really like him too.
or write him a serious love note.
flirt with him a little give him hints and clues.
dudes love it if you hug them close and rub on their hair even sitting on his lap will make him like you even more.
I think if you want his attention you have to give a lil more.
because he's scared of realtionships
you might have to make him change his mind you might even have to make him a little jealous
hope I helped
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