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Am I nuts?
When I was 5 I lived down the street about a mile from my cousins Paige and Chase, and she lived directly across the street from this boy named Steven, who was Chase's best friend. I always had a crush on Steven, right up until I moved when I was 10 (6 years ago). I went to church with my cousin on Sunday and I saw Steven there, cute as ever, and I caught his eye and smiled at him and he smiled at me and I saw him watching me a few times, but I didn't get a chance to talk to him. I still like him, eventhough I haven't seen him in 3 or 4 years and haven't talked to him since I moved. Am I nuts for still liking him, should I ask him out, and can anyone think of a way to go about asking him out so I don't sound like a crazy stalker?
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Wow ! That is fate right there of course! Lol.
I think that you should try to get ahold of him and then just plan to hang out with him. Once you and him both get more comfortable,then things might turn into something more :]
You never know. But you should give it a tryyy :]
I hope that I am helpful in anyway :]
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Dear "am I nuts",
Your not nuts at all but there is an obvious connection between you and this guy. The next time your at your cousins you should talk to him. It definatly wouldn't hurt anything just to ask him out to coffee or something. If you can invite him to do something you feel comfortable doing, such as bowling or mini golf, that way you'll feel in your element so to speak and will be much more comfortable talking to him.
Or if your not at your cousins very often then ask them for his number. And when you call just be very up front and tell him you asked them for his number(that way he won't be freaked out trying to figure out how you got it) and just say that it's been a while and you wanted to catch up and see how he's been doing. Most likely he'll be really impressed by your forwardness.
Besides, what have you got to loose? It's not like your really great friends and asking him on a date would ruin the friendship. You already don't talk to him, so there would be no awkward conversation when you visit your cousins. If it didn't work out between you at least you can say you tried. Don't waste your life asking yourself "what if". You win some you loose some but at least that way you know.
Good luck and best wishes!
~Kambrey
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OMG! do you believe in FATE!?!
because i think its fate thats
calling you! haha i think
dont rush into things just yet.
you never know if he has a girlfriend.
so just keep talking to him and let
things flow. and no your not
wrong for still having a crush on him
i have had a crush on this boy
for years! even though i dont see him
when i do the spark is always there!
so good luck! just do your thing!
xoxOlivia
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no your not nuts your in love!!!!
girls tend to fall in love with cute guys exspecially if you knew them so young. and then saw him you need to tell your cousin to get his number and call him and tell him how you feel hey you might just get to be his girl.
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