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Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 8:07 am
15/F
[recap]
There was this guy who liked me I guess, so I walk the same way home as him, and he starts walking with me. I didn't mind it that much, and then he started with the hand around the shoulder, still didn't mind it. Then he started pretty much hugging me really tight, while I'm trying to walk home. When I got home, after him pretty much not letting me move in anyway, or being able to kick/punch him. He asked me out, I said I liked someone else, and he basically got really bitter and started to ignore me. He never said anything about how he feels yet he does that[recap]
Now, a few days ago again, he walked with me. Did the hand on shoulder thing, hugging etc. Then when we got to my house, he pre...
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confused between the two person i love most
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 1:11 am
I was madly in love with my exboyfriend whom I've been dating for a year and 2 months and till this day I am still unsure why we broke up. However, about 3-5 days later I meet my other exboyfriend and he is now my current boyfriend and we've been going out for almost two years by the end of this month. I love them both very much and I hurt my current boyfriend alot because I always think about my exboyfriend. The thing is I cannot choose who I want to be with..these two are complete opposites...and I dont know why I love them both very much..my ex still loves me as much as he did and I love him to...my boyfriend loves me very much and I love him to...I just can't decide on whom I want to be with...they both love me and take care of me very...
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I still care too much.
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 1:06 am
18/F
Well, telling the whole story could potentially take a while, so I'll do my best to summarize. There's this guy--let's call him Bob--and he and I have been really good friends basically since we met. I always kind of had a crush on him, but he always had a girlfriend. Then his gf turned out to be a lying bitch, and they broke up, and wonder of wonders, he asked me out. Of course, I said yes. We dated for five months total, and we had a really great relationship. We never really argued, we got along great, I loved him more than anything. He was even talking about us potentially getting married one day.
Well, he had this really close female friend--we'll call her Mary. After we'd been dating for about three months, ...
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my boyfriend
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 12:13 am
ok well i am 13 ok n my bf iz older then me ok nd he keeps pressuring me into things what should i do? cuz like i have been goin out with him for awhile now n he iz like telling me wat to do n shit n its very confusing n on msn he keeps telling me to flash him n finger myself on cam ok nd i dont no wat to do about that either ok plzzz help me i dun no wat to do!!!
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i like him....AGAIN
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 11:56 pm
So there is this kid lets call him Greg. Well last April Greg and I started hanging out and getting really close. He liked me and I liked him that whole situation. We never really talked about it with eachother, like how we felt about one another but my friend would talk to him and his friend would talk to me and that how we both knew how one another felt. kinda akward i know. So after we had been getting to know eachother for about almost a month my friend who get jealous alot, espically with me since were so close decided to tell him that i dont like him and i dont want a relationship with him and that i only want to be friends just so she could hook up with him and get him instead of me. Well that didnt work out too well because when he ...
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This is really sad but still.....
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 10:11 pm
My best friend and I haven't been doing so well. It first started when I started trusting this guy that her boyfriend hated. The problem is me and this guy have become close friends now. And Ive like liked him for months. Sometimes I can't stop thinking about him. The problem is im too afraid to tell him how I feel for three reasons:
1.) I dont want my friend to get really mad when she finds our I actually do like like him.
2.) Im afraid everyone will bug me and say "We Knew It!!" (Ill explain after)
3.)Im afraid he'll stop being my friend and ignore me...
We flirt ALL the time. I should say about 14 times a school day or so. He usually starts it though because i cant because of my frien...
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my boyfriend
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 9:53 pm
my boyfriend said he had to go and that he loved me and i didn't want him to leave and i told him if he left i would dump him. he still signed off, and i dumped him on the phone. and then i called him again and he hung up on me.
who did the wrong thing? me or him? did i over react because he had to go? or was it him?
=/ i feel like crap. i think i overeacted
how can i tell him how much he means to me?
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Player, trusting issues
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 9:48 pm
My current boyfriend has had a bazillion girlfriends before he started settling down. I'm not usually the jealous type, so trusting him has been easy. But latley, he's been leaving picture comments (including texts too) to other girls saying "wow you're gorgeous" or "hey cutie, i miss you" which has got me suspicious. I've tried talk to him about these, but naturally its no big deal to him.
Well, one of the girls he's beens flirting with, is going on a trip to Europe with him for some organization. Its kind of got me worried, how do I know when he's gone too far with all of this?
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so...
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 9:37 pm
15/f and i'm gay. So me and this girl went out for a while and I'm just so shy around her like when we kiss and stuff, and I like to take things slow and she really likes to mess around. So we broke up because I'm to "shy". Everytime we talk you can tell we still like each other and she always says that she wishes I wasn't as shy. I want to get back with her but I have to become more relaxed with her. How can I be more comfortable doing things with her other than kissing?
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What does he think of me?
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 8:57 pm
Well, theres this guy I met recently that I like, but I'm not sure what he thinks of me. We don't really talk in person but on IM he is always first to message me and he talks a lot. However, at school its like he doesn't even know me. We pass eachother in the halls many times but he just walks past me without even looking at me and the one time I did see him look at me he quickly turned away but I am friends with two of his friends...so what does this all mean?
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HELP!
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 8:10 pm
ok theres a guy in my class. he's soooooo annoying and stupid and obnoxious and I think he might like me! EEW! i have absolutely NO affection for him not even in a friend way. so if he tries to ask me out how should i let him down?? like some phrases or whatever to reject him.
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9 years
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 7:29 pm
ok so i have known this guy for 9 years + he is my neighbor and when we were little he would come to my house and we would play with eachother not thinking that we were different genders and we were playing house and we..made out. he liked me liked me when we were younger and i blew it. now i like him but he has a girlfriend. i have mixed emotions for him. what should i do, should i wait til they break up to tell him because what if he still likes me? it would ne so great for us to go out because then he can come up tp my house whenever he wants, that would be a great relatiponship. Help!
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Boyfriend drama
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 7:19 pm
ok well heres the thing. im in love with my boyfrriend but sometimes he can be really mean like when hes having a bad day he takes it out on me and yells at me for no reason but he is like the sweetest boyfriend ever. andyeahh my friends think i deserve better but idk like when i hink about him being mean to me i wanna break up with him but then when i like talk to him and stuff i don't..so i do but then i don't...iu have no clue what to do!! Help Me!
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How...!?
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 7:05 pm
How do I stop liking someone..I've liked a girl off and on for over a year now, and now I can't get her out of my head..I've asked her out once already, but she rejected me..That just made me like her more..! and I don't under stand how to get her out of my head...
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my friend's crush likes me, help, please?
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 6:59 pm
I'm a 15 year old girl.
I really like a boy who really likes me back.
But this is a problem since one of my best friends really really likes him a lot. They're friends, too, but he finds her more like a sister.
If I wanted to be in a relationship with the guy, how could I do that without hurting my best bud?
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My ex bf & current bf
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 6:42 pm
13/f
Well this is a really long story so Ill just give you the main facts
I use to have a boyfriend I really really like & he really really liked me. We broke up about a month ago, & I still like him. But I have a new bf & he has a new gf. I just got my bf today, but Its still really hard for me to think of him as a boyfriend, I still kinda think of him as my brother/bff. I still like my ex, we broke up over a confusion, and it still seems like he likes me since were in Jr High & his gf is in elementary school & i catch him staring at me & stuff like that.
So should I break up with this new guy? Im not sure I really like him or not.... but also what should I do about my e...
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the boy i like
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 4:51 pm
Okay so last year i messed around with this guy and we only talked here and there since. but for the last couple of months hes been messaging me on myspace but when we see eachother other places its awkward sometimes he makes a comment to me but rarely. any ideas on how to talk to him when i see him?
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ummmm
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 4:49 pm
i recently came out and the girl i like is on my basketball team. weve flirted and become rele close. she doesnt know im gay but i think she gets it. i dont know if i shud tell her or shud i just keep going.
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just me again trying to figure stuff out
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 4:45 pm
okay so
1 i dated this guy for a month and a half and loved him so much
2 we boke up because my parents hated him but mostly because were 4 years apart and could get in a lot of trouble.
3 we stopped talking after the break up until 7 months later he messaged me on myspace.
4 we started talking every night and getting really close again and flirting like crazyyy and then we started hooking up and did pretty much everything but sex but were planning to
5 then we got into fight over whether he was using me which i dont think he was now that i think of it
6 after the fight we decided to be friends [ i wasny happy bout it] and about a month later he had a ...
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Friend making a move on a guy I really like.
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 3:37 pm
14/F
There's this guy. We'll call him "joe" And there's my friend, we'll call her "kara." I've like Joe since this summer, and we've become great friends and we've been talking a lot and we text everyday. I admitted that I liked him Friday night, because I couldn't hold it in anymore, and I knew he already knew, so I would feel better if I told him. Well, he came over for my birthday on the 23rd, and my friend Kara and another girl were here, but he left around 9. Me & the other girl went to bed around 12 or 1, and Kara called Joe and stayed on the phone until 4 am. Well I found out about this he next morning, because she told me. Kara invited Joe over saturday night, but my grandma wasn't home, so I made up e...
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