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This is really sad but still.....


Question Posted Monday March 5 2007, 10:11 pm

My best friend and I haven't been doing so well. It first started when I started trusting this guy that her boyfriend hated. The problem is me and this guy have become close friends now. And Ive like liked him for months. Sometimes I can't stop thinking about him. The problem is im too afraid to tell him how I feel for three reasons:

1.) I dont want my friend to get really mad when she finds our I actually do like like him.
2.) Im afraid everyone will bug me and say "We Knew It!!" (Ill explain after)
3.)Im afraid he'll stop being my friend and ignore me...

We flirt ALL the time. I should say about 14 times a school day or so. He usually starts it though because i cant because of my friend. He has called me "My Love" before and once said we were going out to make a guy jealous. But there was a rumor a week or so ago saying he liked my other best friend and that really tore me up. We still flirt and sometimes he'll ask me if I like him and ill say no cause im too shy and ill ask him and he says no. So I dont know if he meant the no or not like i didnt mean mine. Im too afraid to tell im cause right now he is one of the only people who seem to even care about me right now (even as a friend). What should I do?


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chusmaleidy12 answered Tuesday March 6 2007, 11:54 am:
Tell him how you feel it will make you feel better if he doesn't want to be your friend that means that he just wanted to have a moment with you . About ur friend she will understand,if she doesn't understand that mean that she is not your true friend because true friend understands and accept their friend not even if that friend, boy friend is in between. so take care and talk to her. Also talk to that boy you like ok. And all those pepole that start talking crap just ignore them thats your life and you should live itthe way you want it to live it. holla, lots of luv, take care.

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khadiya answered Tuesday March 6 2007, 1:24 am:
Well first you said your friend's boyfriend hated the guy so she shouldn't have a problem. The next time he asks do you like him say maybe. Because he is saying no because you are.|
But like i was saying i understand that her boyfriend dislikes this guy but that has nothing to do with her and if she gets mad at you for pursuing something that will make you happy then she isnt a real friend.

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