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15/f and i'm gay. So me and this girl went out for a while and I'm just so shy around her like when we kiss and stuff, and I like to take things slow and she really likes to mess around. So we broke up because I'm to "shy". Everytime we talk you can tell we still like each other and she always says that she wishes I wasn't as shy. I want to get back with her but I have to become more relaxed with her. How can I be more comfortable doing things with her other than kissing?
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you just try to be ur self. I am shy too an dwhat i do is that i try to dop stuff fun and interesting that maybe it could catch thge attention. If you want to something else than kissing her try to ask her what u could do that she likes ok
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honestly... I'm exactly like you haha, i'm gay and 18/m anyway, I broke up with him because he was like that girl that you like... he wanted to move fast and I always got nervous whenever we tried to mess around... in the end I realized the best thing for me to do was to just stay friends and keep it that way... You shouldn't have to try and change yourself just for someone else because honestly you'll find someone who is shy and will want to take the time to get to know you and you'll both be very comfortable and it'll move at the exact pace that you want it to. So basically, I think you should try and stay friends with her but probably not go any further... she's different and it's okay to accept that but don't settle for someone less when the one you're looking for is waiting out there for you.
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