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Help!!!! URGENT CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!
so this is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo totally important so there is this girl in my class who has a crush on me and I am a girl the other girl is probablly bi but I am straight and i am not changing what soooooooo ever so i don't know what to say or to do because i can't talk to her with out her looking at me romanticly so what should I do?
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I know how you feel, but try to understand where this girl is coming from. She can't help her feelings for you. But you have a choice as to how to react. Although it may be difficult, the best thing for you to do is be honest about how you feel. As the others have said, make it clear to her that you're straight, but that you're flattered- she'll get the message. From now on, though, try not to be put off by her. Be yourself and treat her like all the others. You might feel akward, but you should still see her for who she is, rather than what she is. She happens to be Bi.. but she's still a person worthy of respect. You don't need to change yourself for anyone, let alone her..just be yourself, and she'll get the message.
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I know that you're probablly freaked out about it but talk to her. Just because she's bi, doesn't make her a bad person. Tell her that you're not interested and that you're straight. If you don't want to be friends with her because of that, that's your choice but just don't treat her diffrently.
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Talk to this girl in private. Tell her nicely that you are flattered she likes you, but that you are COMPLETELY straight and don't plan on changing. Tell her its nothing personal, its just how you are.
Its the only way not to lead her on.
Good luck!
-Abby
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