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just me again trying to figure stuff out
okay so
1 i dated this guy for a month and a half and loved him so much
2 we boke up because my parents hated him but mostly because were 4 years apart and could get in a lot of trouble.
3 we stopped talking after the break up until 7 months later he messaged me on myspace.
4 we started talking every night and getting really close again and flirting like crazyyy and then we started hooking up and did pretty much everything but sex but were planning to
5 then we got into fight over whether he was using me which i dont think he was now that i think of it
6 after the fight we decided to be friends [ i wasny happy bout it] and about a month later he had a girlfriend
7 problem is i still love him with all my heart and hes the only guy i can ever feel comfprtable around and i can picture myself with him for life
8 what can i do besides try to get over him because ive tried getting over him and its pretty impossible should i just wait for him to break up with his gf?
thanks soooo much in advance
-ash
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A four year age difference is a lot and considering you said he could get in trouble from your relationship I'm gonna ges your under 18. I know you probably don't want to hear this but have you ever heard the saying 'If you love them let them go'? Maybe thats what you sould do. It sounds like you being with him could cause a lot of problems in your future especially if your under 18. And it sounded like it didn't take him to long to find another girlfriend. You should find a guy who cares for you as much as you care for him. There will always be other guys, he won't be the last guy you love either. So maybe it's not so much getting over him than letting go and letting him live his life.
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Why not tell him how you feel? Be completely honest with him. Tell him, "Look, I'm not trying to come between you and your girlfriend on purpose, but I just can't get you out of my head. I still have strong feelings for you and I've felt a strong connection between you and I after all we had been through. Do you feel the same way and, if so, can we ever be together again?"
That way, you can know how he feels about the situation and if things don't work out, it may be easier for you to move on knowing whether or not he wants to be with you.
I know admitting that you have feelings for someone is a really hard thing to do, but in situations like this, it's all you can do.
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