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blaaah! this kid/stupid me.
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 6:34 pm
15/f freshman
there's this kid in 2 of my classes & i kinda like him, but i dont kno if it's a fully developed crush yet as weird as that sounds.
i'm superrrrr shy. i don't talk a lot in class/participate, and talking to new people and especially guys is so hard. it's not as much worrying what people are going to think of me after i say something, but i just don't know what to say. (around my friends/family, i'm completely talkative) so anyway...
he knows who i am which is a start haha. (if this means anything: my friend went to florida for a band trip and she was texting me and all the people she was with were like who are you texting? and she said my name, and this kid i like asked if it was me [said my first and ...
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Guy friend.
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 6:11 pm
I'm 16/f and my friend is 16/m. He hangs out with me everynight, and I see him every morning before school. Do you think I should just not answer his calls and kind of avoid him for a couple days? I'm not mad or anything, I just want to see how many times he'll call & what not. Is this a bad idea? I just want to see if he'll think about me more, once he realizes he hasn't seen/talked to me in awhile.
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is it worth keeping!?!?
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 5:59 pm
ok so me and my boyfriend are madly in love, we've been together for over a year and we are planning on getting married. but theres a problem. im a VERY dominant person and so is he. we fight alot b.c im very opinionated and dont think before i talk. its not that hes controlling its that he refuses to let me be the dominant one. he would NEVER hit me unlease i told him to, the only place hes ever hit me was on the arm and i told him too. hes very protective over me and loves me more then anyone ever has. i wanna spend the rest of my life with this man but my attitude is becoming a problem. i have a HUGE attitude plus my need to be in control makes our relationship very shaky. i dont wanna break up with him but i need to find a way to calm down my attitude and control my stress!!!!
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Getting mad over "nothing".
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 5:53 pm
My boyfriend of a year and a half complains that I get angry too easily. I admit that I do, to some extent; but I always have an actual reason. For example, one of our friends (who has a boyfriend) was, (well in my eyes) flirting with my boyfriend right in front of me, and it pissed me off. By the way, it's not the best time of month right now, so that's causing me to be a bit moody and more bitchy about things. But anyway, so I confronted him about it and he got really pissed off and said he can't take me getting pissed about everything anymore. I almost lost him today and it really has hit me that should change, but I don't really know how. I really don't know how to be able not to get so mad about things. Can anyone give me some tips, if there is any?
Thanks so much.
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senior w/ a sophomore
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 5:43 pm
I'm a sophomore who is "seeing" a senior... is it a bad idea for us to go out? Since the school year is winding down I'm a little concerned about him going to college, even though we still have like 2 more months + summer. He's going to school about 3-4 hours away, BTW. I'm worried that we won't have time for each other, that it will be difficult to have a long distance relationship, and that he will want to go out with other college girls instead of me once he gets there! PLEASE only answer if you have HAD this experience, and tell me how it worked out. Thanks!
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still feelings
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 5:34 pm
I have dated many guys since this one guy. They have all been great guys but I still have feelings for this other guy. I wasn't in love with this guy but for some reason there is something special about him. Now there is this girl and she likes him and they are going to go out soon, and I don't know what to do. I hate the stupid bitch also. I like him so much but I dont want to. I tried to date around and they're all real good guys but for some reason I just want him. And like we really didnt even hang out that much. Please helpp :[
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still love my ex
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 5:24 pm
Have you ever just had it where your head and heart are fighting to be right and you just don't know what to feel, you feel head over heels in love, but know you shouldn't be, yet your not sure if you should persue this person or just end it before you get hurt and broken again...well that's kind of how I feel. I just have no clue what to do, I wish I could have what I want and at the same time I know what I want is so stupid and that I shouldn't want it. Someone please help me....seriously.
17/f, this guy is my ex, we dated for 3 years
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*sigh*...I'll admit it, I like him
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 3:44 pm
I've been denying it for ages but i have to face facts i like him, but i don't know what to do. He's sort of nice and funny...in an obnoxious way. What do I do?!?
13/f
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conversing
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 3:42 pm
this boy im about to start dating wont talk to me...when we werent dating and he had a gf we talked plenty..but now its just like awkward silence on the phone. i feel like all we do is physical stuff toghether which is terrible because i have trust issues so i want to get to know him better, i think i act the same, so i dont know why he has to freeze up on me..
what are some good conversation topics and how do i get him to open up to me, because i really want this to work, but it's not going to if we dont start talking *SOON*
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spanish crush
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 12:53 pm
heeyy! i reallyyyy need to know how to say "i want you" or better yet "no one will ever want you like i do" in spanish! can anyone help me! /cause babelfish messes it up/ thx"
so basically, to sum it up:
how do you say "baby, no one else can ever want you like i do" in CORRECT spanish?
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i don't feel like his girlfriend?
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 11:18 am
my boyfriend's ex girlfriend broke his heart. and now i think he is afraid to come close to a girl ebcause he's afraid of getting hurt. i love him to bits. but i don't know if i can handle it.. he takes advantage of me because he says i'm too nice.. and because i forgive people too easily.. i never told him he treated me like crap but i gave him hints and told him that he takes everythign otu on me and he doesn't act like he wants to be wtih me.. all he said was 'i'm sorry i dont' know whats wrong with me' i mean he never even told me i was pretty? aren't boyfriends supposed to flaunder you with words? it doesn't bother me i just wishe he woudl soem times it's a good confidence booster once in a while... never calls to hang out either... ...
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he never takes me seriously
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 11:11 am
16/f the problem is everytime i look at my boyfriend i smile. there is no whipping the smile off my face. i went to talk to him abuot something important today that has been bothering me.. that things weren't the way it used to be.. every since the third time we had sex.. he just doesn't call me as much and we don't talk as much... i said to him 'sometimes i just wish you would call me just to say hi' and i smiled. i told him i was trying to be serious.. but i couldn't help but smile. i asked him if he still wanted to be together and he said 'i guess' wtf? i think he was just nervious because he thought i was going to dump him or somethingg
so i guess my question is.. i am in love with him no doubt about it.. i want everythin...
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ahh
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 3:14 am
OK, im doomed! I stayed back last year and they think I dont shower, im gross and all this stuff.Well I do have friends and I hang out with this kid named Steven, and I like steven. Now kids know I like steven but I dont want steven to know.. Its not as easy and I ask him out everyone would lauph and it and it madders to me. And it sucks because we have to do tis inventors thing and he's my partner and he does nothing! and its hard to try and concintrate next to the kid u like I really need a good grade so how do i concintrate on my work and not flirting with him??
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Is my boyfriend hiding something?
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 2:31 am
Well, me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months, he is 21 and i am 19. i had just asked him if he would give me his myspace password and he said that he wouldn't. He said that he had nothing to hide but that he felt that we should have our own space and if i did look through his myspace i would take things that his women friends write and take them the wrong way, (which i do alot.) He does have alot of women friends and i do get a bit jealous. So i guess i was just wondering if his answer was valid or is he trying to hide something?
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SENIOR...BOY!!!
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 11:48 pm
I like this senior boy and im a freshman. We just spoke and now i am wondering if hell say hi to me the next time he sees me!! Like we spoke and alghed, it was me and my friend and him. it wasnt anything special but it happened!! i dont no what to do to get closer being that popularity is a main thing and he svery ang im but a meir freshman!!! hopefuly hell say hii!!! what do i say? i wanna talk to him more, but not be to needy and not make to much small talk!!!!
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turning down guys
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 11:07 pm
I'm really picky about the kind of guys I date, so when a guy asks me out, there's a good chance I'm going to turn him down. The thing is, I'm so bad at it! I either 1) panic and say yes, even though I don't mean it or 2) make up an excuse and hope he doesn't find out the truth or 3) ignore him and try to act like it never happened. It's so awkward & embarrassing! What are some good ways of telling a guy "thanks, but no thanks" in a straightforward but not rude way?
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perfectionism
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 11:03 pm
About 2 years ago I was "diagnosed" with perfectionism. (Yes, it's a real disorder.) I got counseling for it, and it hasn't really interfered much with my life since then until now. I've recently found myself faced with more serious dating relationships, but because of my disorder, it makes it really difficult for me to want to get close to a guy. I've met a guy that I adore, and we both like each other. But it's hard because I'm afraid of being "imperfect" around him, which is ironic because that's pretty much inevitable. No one is perfect. But you'd have to have perfectionism to really understand what I mean. Anyways, it's gotten to the point where I don't want to eat around him. I might get something stuck in my teet...
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What can I do?
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 10:31 pm
Ok, so there is this guy who I can't manage to get out of my head. He is the sweetest guy i've ever known and i've fallen so hard for him. And when he's not around I can't help but feel sad. I don't want to feel this way because he's someone that I would never get a chance to be with, and I understand that... because well, he's my teacher and I know how that's wrong and whatever, But I can't help how I feel at this point... People say they think he likes me because he's the playful type, I guess, and he touches me and stuff like that... Nothing too serious though... Anyway, I try so hard to find something wrong with him or to ignore him so that I could get over him, but he always comes around and says something sweet or funny... The point i...
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Confused...
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 10:15 pm
14/m
Ok..Me and this girl I like have been friends for about a year and a half. She used to think I was weird and what not, but now she's like my sister. But the thing is...I like her. But I'm not sure if she does...She tells me how sweet I'am and that anygirl would be lucky to go out with me...But she also gives me nicknames and what not (none of them are bad) and I'm not sure if she likes me or not..You think she does? Thanks in advance...
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to kiss or not to kiss LOL
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 9:32 pm
Ok I am 13 and have never kissed a guy before and a lot of people make fun of me for it and call me virgin lips. I am really sick of the names, but I normally ignore it. So anyways today my best friend asked this guy who had just recently asked me out if he was going to kiss me. He said he wasn't sure because he didn't want me to reject him for a kiss. My friend was like oh don't worry she wont she wants to kiss you, and he was like oh ok then I probably will kiss her. But this is our first date and I am not sure if it is too soon. Plus we are going to a hockey game with a group of people. All my friends are like kiss him under the bleachers thats so hot, but I am nervous. Any tips on kissing? And please don't respond to me kiss him whe...
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