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What can I do?
Ok, so there is this guy who I can't manage to get out of my head. He is the sweetest guy i've ever known and i've fallen so hard for him. And when he's not around I can't help but feel sad. I don't want to feel this way because he's someone that I would never get a chance to be with, and I understand that... because well, he's my teacher and I know how that's wrong and whatever, But I can't help how I feel at this point... People say they think he likes me because he's the playful type, I guess, and he touches me and stuff like that... Nothing too serious though... Anyway, I try so hard to find something wrong with him or to ignore him so that I could get over him, but he always comes around and says something sweet or funny... The point is, I'm about to graduate in a month and knowing that i'll probably never see him again is killing me... I havn't felt like myself because of this whole thing and it's bothering me... I guesss I just want to know how I can get over him or any other advice anyone might have on this whole thing...
thanks so much... 19/f
Ohhhh and i'm not in highschool... It's more like a trade school..
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Well since your not underage and he isn't also, I don't understand why you couldn't go for it, or atleast try. Snce you are going to be graduating it wouldn't be weird and random people at school wouldn't know. If you say you think he might like you then ask him or try to make plans with him, feel him out. But if you don't want to do that there's no exact way to get over someone. You just have to cope with the fact that this isn't going to work and you two won't be together. Your young you can't waste your whole life thinking about somebody who will never be 'your somebody.' Hope I helped! Good Luck :]
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This is a really tough situation. I think that the only way that this is going to get resolved is if you talk with him about it right after you graduate. There's no reason why you can't stay in touch with him and be friends. It's easy to idolize a teacher, but if you actually became good friends with him it should be much easier to find something wrong with him. After talking with him, I wouldn't suggest starting a relationship even if he's into it. Take some time to reevaluate things. It could get bad if you don't. In any case, revealing your feelings to him could very well give you the closure that you need. Good luck. :)
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