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he hates me now what do i do?
okay so this boy that i have loved senc like pre k hates me now and I don’t know why well i think i do but I’m not sher cuse one night we were aiming and talking and then we got to talking about myspace pic's and he was all like you need pics of you in a bikini and i am so self conscious about the way I look and he was like no you'll look fine and then out of no were he became this person I had never seen b4 like he kept trying to presser me into taking the pics and i was like look don’t make me do this and now he blocked me on aim, deleted me off myspace and in school when ever we see each other we act like we never new each other and I hate it what do I do how can I fix this?? help me=[[
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try and talk to him.
i know that you love him but sometimes whats the best thing may be the hardest thing. if he wont let you explain yourself, then give it time. if after a while of cooling off and he still wont let you explain yourself, let him go. i had to do that with my ex. we broke up when he moved 1000 miles away but we still loved eachother. and we recently got in a fight and i had to learn to let him go. it was best because i couldnt make him happy.
just try and tell him what you feel and about your insecurities and if he wont let you explain yourself, then tell him that you love him but youve gotta let go.
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He likes you and he's really confused about it. He's angry at you because you won't take the pictures and he's angry at himself because he doesn't understand why he wants to see the pictures. He's acting like a jerk because that's how hormonal guys are.
You should just talk to him and tell him you're sorry you made him mad but you're just not comfortable in a bikini. Then if you have the guts, tell him you like him and ask him out because there's a very good chance he'll say yes.
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This boy doesnt hate you. He's probably embarrased. He acted stupid. He probably likes you as well, and wanted to see you in a bikini, and now feels stupid for asking. So let it all go, and start fresh. Talk to him as if it didnt happen, and he should follow along.
Good luck!
-Abby
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