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Guy friend.
I'm 16/f and my friend is 16/m. He hangs out with me everynight, and I see him every morning before school. Do you think I should just not answer his calls and kind of avoid him for a couple days? I'm not mad or anything, I just want to see how many times he'll call & what not. Is this a bad idea? I just want to see if he'll think about me more, once he realizes he hasn't seen/talked to me in awhile.
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What kind of outcome are you looking for? Are you trying to boost your self esteem in someway? If not & he does end up worrying about you, what good did it do? I don't think it's a good idea to play mind games with your friends - or anyone for that matter. If you have a good reason to take a break from your friend (ex: you spend too much time together & need your alone time), then that's fine to back off a bit. But it'd be respectful if you talked to your guy friend & made him aware of the changes. If you suddenly start ignoring him, not only is it rude, but he's going to think something is wrong - which might cause an argument. Be a good friend & don't avoid him. If you really want to know how much he cares about you, ask him yourself.
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No. It's not nice to play mind games. No matter what happens, you'll probably end up feeling bad--either because you worried him, or because he doesn't notice.
Would you really want someone doing that to you? Are there really any positive outcomes? You'll make him feel bad, and you'll probably feel bad too.
I think that you need a good boost of self-esteem. You are someone, and you are important, and you don't need someone else to prove that to you.
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yea ive done its not the best idea he'll think something wrong and it will probaly end in a fight not a good idea
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