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how can i change for guys?
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 1:25 pm
ok so, i know there are a lot of questions out there like what do guys see in girls, or the opposite. well thats sorta what im getting to here. im 15/f and im having so much trouble here, and i need some real advice, not just a stupid answer. i know this is wierd, but ive only had one boyfriend, and it was elementary school for a long time but i dont really count it, because we didnt kiss and stuff, i mean come on i still thought boys had cooties. but i feel really out of place at my school and with my friends. they all have had boyfriends and i havent even had my first kiss. i dont think im that pretty but im not like hideous. im friends with guys but when i start having feelings for them, they like my other friends and it hurts everytime....
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sorta important!
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 1:08 pm
well it was the last day of my period. n me n my boyfriend had sex. the condom broke, im on birth control - the patch - but i've only been on it for two weeks. shoud i worry about being pregnant?
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Should I Go?
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 1:08 pm
I'm female and 14 years old. My Boyfriend is 15, nearly 16.
Okay, this is quite a weird question bt i need help as soon as possible. Basically, he wants me to sneak out tonight and meet up with him. The problem is there has recently been a pervert around who grabbed a girl in my school near to where i live. I am scared that he could grab me when i go tonight, coz it will be around 1 in the morning and dark. It will take about 5 - 10 minutes until I will meet my boyfriend. So i have a 5 minute walk or even a bit longer on my own in the dark along some roads to him. I don't like the dark much as it is and I am petrified about this pervert.. I can't get my boyfriend to come to my house, and this is the closest I can meet him but I hate...
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ok so heres the deal with my crush
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 11:54 am
ok so i like this kid [k] and everybody has been telling him that i like hiim. he told my friend that i was pretty but he thinks of me as a really good friend. and thats fine, if friends is the only thing we could be then its fine for me. but a while ago, during a b-ball, which him and i were in. [different teams of course], but before his game we would flirt like crazy, we would sit next to each other, take pics of each other, and i loved it, but i didnt like him then. we dont see each other anymore, except for occationally like at a pool party that is possiply coming up, or a party which i was going to go to but cant anymore, im so disapointed. anyway, my friend told him that i really dont like him like that just as friends ya know? and h...
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Why am I feeling like this?
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 6:38 am
I'm a junior now. I've gone through at least one guy/relationship each year. One really hurt me.
I'm in a new relationship now. This guy is amazing, so sweet and funny. We are really open with each other and it's so different from my other relationships. I can't believe it lasted to 5 months. It's almost 6 months now and it's scaring me. I don't know how to get rid of this.. feeling..fear. I'm so scared that it's going to hurt really badly if this ends.. because I feel as though I'm too attached already. And since this relationship is without any abuse of some sort [verbal] it's the best I have ever had. I'm just worrying over things and trying to prepare myself. But I'm tired of doing this. One of my past relationships las...
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I'm out of control
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 6:37 am
I need some serious help.
Okay, I'm 17/m and was hit by cupids arrow about a year and a half ago. However, recently my gf, that I'm still completely in love with, has gone out of town and out of reach (3 hour drive with no car working full time at a restaurant) for the entire summer.
Now, there's this friend of mine. She's very cute in her own way and because of mine and her past relationship were really flirty when were by each other. The thing is I can't control myself when I'm close to her and I go completely nuts (out of my mind) and do things I would never even think about with any other woman (except my gf). I guess what I'm trying to ask is, how do I keep myself from having to make that decision without hurting any...
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Communication
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 3:49 am
I think I have a problem communicating.In particular my boyfriend.It's weird.. I can talk to my issues to anyone else,But when it comes to talking to him about my personal life and just what I like or what I think about, I can't seem to come out with it.I feel like I'm being hypocritical because I always ask him what's on his mind and what he feels about things.And I know it gets on his nerves and I don't mean to be hesitant to tell him anything.I love him so much and I can't stand not being honest with him and what not.I'm not very good at expressing myself and I hate it.I'm trying to fix that problem, I just don't quite know how to.It's kind of odd though.Because when we're intimate , I guess I don't indicate what I like and what I don't ...
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helppp!
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 1:36 am
ok so today i hungout with the guy i like
im not normally a shy person
but when i like you i totally am!
and of course thats how i was today.
i brought my friend with me cause i new it would be silence if it was me and him. we hung out at the mall
went to some stores
walked around and then went to the movies
and saw a movie. so im glad we did that so that way i didnt have to talk. but like everything was so awkward and i felt bad cause it must of been awkward for him as much at it was for me
and now im at home and i feel like the biggest idiot for not being myself and i seriously dont know what to do. i was being myslef with what i said but me being me is fun and outgoing and always ta...
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does he want it?
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 1:27 am
How do you know if a guy wants to kiss you?? what are the signs of him wanting a kiss?
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Only 8 days!
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 12:48 am
This guy i know and i really like is moving far away in 8 days. I really like him and i want to do something with him before he leaves for good. Like have sex, made out, just something. I dont want to hear what negative things you have to say about me.. I just want advice on how i can make this happen i have a boyfriend and chances are hes going to be with but not all the time im sure he will leave to go to the bathroom or something. Please help I have only 8 days to make this happen and im going to see him one last time THIS SUNDAY!!!!
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hmm what to say?
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 12:40 am
there's this kid that i met over the summer. hes a friend of a friend's ex boyfriend. lol. anyway whenever we see each other he hugs me and tells me i look nice even if i look crappy. i want to get to know him better. the most we've ever talked was over myspace and the conversations are pretty much "hey whats up?" "nm you?" "nm just got back from work." "thats cool". im going to get his screen name tomarrow for aim but i dont know what i should say. i dont want to be to aggressive and play 20 questions.
---what are some good questions that are going to really tell me what kind of person he is?
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moviessss (:
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 12:34 am
any pointers on how i should make a move on my boyfriend when we're alone at the movie theatre?
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girls and guys
Posted Friday July 20 2007, 12:34 am
what do girls like to see guys do. This may seem stupid, but im wondering what girls like to see and what gets them going. Also what qualities do girls like in guys.
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promise ring
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 11:47 pm
my boyfriend is moving very soon. and i think it would be cute if he bought me a promise ring promising that we will be faithful to eachother while we are so far away. how would i hint it to him without actually saying it?
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fingering.
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 11:39 pm
So i'm 15/F
and i was wondering to the girls that have gotten fingered before.. how does it feel ? because some of my friends told me that it hurts, and thats one reason why i don't want to be fingered.. And also i just started wearing tampons, and for the first time it hurt alooot, so i have no idea if fingering is the same way, i really am curious haha. (:
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Is it worth it?
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 10:50 pm
Me and my friend started "going out" like 2-3 weeks ago, and we have REALLY busy schedules... like he was in another state when we decided to "go out" and we've only been home @ the same time for about 5 days, and his mom got surgery, so when his sister isnt home, he has to take care of her. We are best friends, and i dont want to ruin that, but now he cant go anywhere until like ANOTHER week, and i think thats really getting to me. I just dont know if it's all worth it in the end, you know? Because i don't want to ruin our friendship, but i think this could actually be something. So what do i do? Stay with him and hope that we can actually go out sometime in the VERY NEAR future, or just forget it...... PLEASE RESPOND SOON!!!!
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my bro was asking people out on aim on my account
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 10:22 pm
he asked a girl and she said yes.. how do i tell her it was my brother??? i dont want to hurt her feelings.
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Boyfriend concerns..
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 10:22 pm
So I have a boyfriend that I have been with for over 3 months.4 months on the 9th.And since about the first week or 2 of our relationship of dating, he's fingered me.Seems like everytime we get together, he wants to do that.No matter where we are.It's not that it's all that bad, But I don't want it all the time you know.Sometimes I just wanna hold him or kiss him or whatever.Or he even likes to you know, feel me up and whatever.It's not that I don't like it, it's just kind of over whelming you know?And yes I still am a virgin, But he's not.It's not that I don't want to, it's just I think it's too early in the relationship to consider losing it.And I don't think I'm ready quite yet.I know he wants it, But he's not forcing it or anything.Anyw...
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I feel unworthy of him.
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 10:06 pm
so I have this great guy. I love him to death and he makes me feel SO special. and we argue about whos more special all the time. but the thing is... I really don't feel special.. he makes me feel that way but I still feel like he is so much better than me. how can he possibly like me??? like if he is staring at me I feel uncomfortable if I have like zits or something... and I just feel like he can do so much better than me, bu the makes me feel like im the person for him and that im incredible and I just dissagree, I don't think Im beautiful and I don't think im that wonderfull.... what should I do?? why do I feel this way [ hes the only guy ive ever felt this way with ]
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kissing?
Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 10:02 pm
I suck at kissing. Ive made out once, and I told the kid I had not done it before. but this kid was like WAY different then the one im with now. he doesnt want to move to fast, and im ok with that. but we are like really in love with each other. and on our first date we did kiss once, I think I kinda did it. but I could tell he wanted to. I get really nervous... and like I did kiss him but I don't know what to do with my lips???? It was a tiny kiss. so yea... but like I really need to know what to do! I want him to take control but that doesnt always happen so... I need to know what to do so I don't look stupid haha. thx so much!!!!
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