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helppp!
ok so today i hungout with the guy i like
im not normally a shy person
but when i like you i totally am!
and of course thats how i was today.
i brought my friend with me cause i new it would be silence if it was me and him. we hung out at the mall
went to some stores
walked around and then went to the movies
and saw a movie. so im glad we did that so that way i didnt have to talk. but like everything was so awkward and i felt bad cause it must of been awkward for him as much at it was for me
and now im at home and i feel like the biggest idiot for not being myself and i seriously dont know what to do. i was being myslef with what i said but me being me is fun and outgoing and always talking but when im around the guy i like im like a totally different person and i HATE it!
anything i can do to like not make him think im this big loser. like i need to talk to him
cause he didnt respond back to my text and that hurts more too cause i feel like he doesnt want to talk to me agian..
ahh it sounds like im over reacting but seriously just help me.
(dont say anything mean eiether(: )
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ahh i have the same problem of shyness around guys i think are cute or i like.
if you have the mans phone number, call him! who cares about texts, calling is easier to get everything out. call him or talk to him on the computer, just say something like this: hey i know i was kind of shy and not myself when we were hanging out, but its hard when im hanging out with someone so cute.
you dont have to be shy when talknig to him over the phone or the computer, because your not even face to face, if he's nice and the right guy for you he'll understand.
i know your freaking out, i get that way when i get embarrased around crushes, but you get over it and make jokes about it, just pretend like hes a good friend of yours, and dont let your feelings show, just flirt a little like you would with any guy friend and youll be fine!
hope this helps :]
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Oh my gosh, we have the same problem, well i had it but i think i might be able to help you a little bit. okay so your mind probobly goes blank when your with him right? like you dont know anything topics to talk about? well i know it might sound dorky but i did it so yeah. i acctually wrote down what i was going to say to him and questions and topics that i talk about with my other friends and stuff. and just try to get used to him and talk about stuff he likes and things you like and stuff you have in common, im sure it will work. good luck :]
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honey dont worry we all go through that stage.
everyone has people they trust and they get hurt and then learn how much of themselves they can give.tell him the truth ,that you are shy and he will understand.. i mean you woulndt want to not be your self for ever then dive into a relationship and the guy thinks your acomplete diffrent person. and id he dosent like you for you than he dosent know what hes missing ;D
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