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I feel unworthy of him.
so I have this great guy. I love him to death and he makes me feel SO special. and we argue about whos more special all the time. but the thing is... I really don't feel special.. he makes me feel that way but I still feel like he is so much better than me. how can he possibly like me??? like if he is staring at me I feel uncomfortable if I have like zits or something... and I just feel like he can do so much better than me, bu the makes me feel like im the person for him and that im incredible and I just dissagree, I don't think Im beautiful and I don't think im that wonderfull.... what should I do?? why do I feel this way [ hes the only guy ive ever felt this way with ]
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a lot of girls find that one guy they feel that way because of. the reason you feel that way is because u like him soo much. let him tell you your beautiful cuz he means it and everyone is great in theyre own way ,, who knows maybe he feels the same way.. ♥christina
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i think maybe the reason why your feeling so "not beautiful" is because you think hes such a great guy. i know exactly what you mean though. you could be not shy but maybe a little bit insecure around him. also everyone, and i mean like EVERYONE has something about them that they just dont like. maybe you should ask him about the things he thinks is beautiful about you [ not personality like facial features] then you can try to either talk to your self about why you think they're "ugly" and change them, maybe use some different make up or something? well that's what i would do, you should also talk to him to, but thats nothing to break up with him about so try not to do that. hope something helped! good luck :]
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Hi.
Just accept it. :] There's far more to a person that just what a person sees with their eyes - it's what a person feels as well.
You forget also that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just because someone thinks one person is gorgeous it doesn't mean everyone will think that way about them. Everyone has their own perspective and opinion on what beauty is, what ugly is, what's good and what's bad. In the same way he thinks you are special. No one else may think tha way of you but he does and at the end of the day that's all that should matter.
You don't really need to do anything as such, just be happy. I mean the truth of the matter is, in my opinion, that EVERYONE has the potential to be able to do better. I mean seriously if we consider how vast the world is and how many people there are in this world the possibility of us never being able to find better is very remote. There will always be someone better out there but then that's what relationships are all about - being with someone who's special to YOU. Being with someone who you love and care about regardless of their short falls so that even though there might be someone better out there you want to be with the person your with because they are the ones you are content with. :]
"To the world you might be no-one, but to someone you might be the world."
--Author Unknown.
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