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we're not dating but...


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 3:54 pm

i've been talking to this guy all summer but we've said we love each other and we talked on the phone like everynight. but we have this mutual friend Greg and his girlfriend's name is Allison. and lately this guy has been talking to Allison more than me. i mean we're not dating so hes really not cheating on me and im not the jealous type but i just don't know what to do. i mean she has a boyfriend but im not sure Greg knows about it. what should i do??

15/f

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I want to have sex with my boyfriend, but I'm underage.


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 3:41 pm

I love my boyfriend and he loves me too, but I'm underage. Is it legal for me to have sex with him, in my state?

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Eh. The now ex-boyfriend.


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 3:36 pm

So I've been dating this boy for a good 8 months.. It would've been 9 if he had waited a couple of days. And I think it's lame to ask questions on here, no offense, but I'm desperate. There's so much to the story, but to sum it all up, he broke up with me for another girl. I think he wants to go back out in the future.. And he said he couldn't be with me if he liked someone else. And I don't know, it's just so hard. I've been crying and crying because it took this breakup to realize that I was actually in love with him. And up until recently, he was too.

How do you get over someone you loved SO much? I don't even feel like getting out of the house and I don't wanna meet new people. I just want him back =/

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omg


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 1:58 pm

OK so there is this kid in my class that i like and everybody knows about it but now that summer vacation is here I dont really like him anymore.
when school starts I am scared i might like him again.

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i need advice!


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 1:13 pm

well.. i aint really done one of these before.. but here i go..

i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now.. but i have only known him for at least 4 months.. before i started talking to him.. i never knew him or spoke to im before. but neway.
for some reason. when im with him. i aint myself around him. im not shy like in the bedroom or anything. but normally im a happy person and full of energy. but when im with him. i just sit there looking sad a and borin.. he says he thinks im normal. but im different wen im with my friends. i dont no how to be myself aorund him. i keep gettin scared that he is gonna end it. i dont no y but i do. and i dont no weva thats y i cant b myself around him. coz im scared of loos...

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ok so i do need someones oppinion


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 11:58 am

Well see I have a bf and weve been together for 8 months.
But theres a problem I like girls.

Well I have a problem telling my friends and things and i havent met a girl who is bi or lesbian ya know. So its hard.

My bf's fine with it and everything but imnot cause im either gonna be bi with a girlfriend or not be bi at all if i dont have one.
Im not gonna wait.

What should i do?

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LOOKING SEXUAL


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 9:52 am

I'm a 17 yr. old girl, and I usually have no problem getting a guy, I think I just attract all the wrong guys, alot of guys come up to me but I kinda give them attitude or either they just see me not girlfriend material? I'm so sick and tired of them looking at me sexually. So whats wrong with me.
- I do not dress sexually, mini skirts, etc. I dress classy
-I love to hang out with the guys
- I'm not really good at flirting
-I'm a virgin, I have done nothing sexual whatsoever.
So why do all these guys see me as nothing more than just a girl to hook-up with?

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How seriously I should take something said when drunk


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 8:37 am

I recently got back together with my boyfriend after a two week break. Out of curiosity, I flipped through his phone. He had mentioned considering hooking up with some one to see if his feelings for me were strong enough to allow him to or not. This, of course, entailed only a kiss according to him. Nothing further than that. As much as the information hurt, I understood that it could be indicator of whether or not his feelings for me were genuine.
On his phone he had engaged in a text conversation with a girl-friend, a day after we had agreed to stop talking for a while. In it, he was asking to hook up with her just "for pleasure," and "no strings attached," and telling her he had "obviously always been ...

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need help from guys


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 8:25 am

i really like a guy right now. But we're not close. He's my classmate but we don't talk. We once chatted in Yahoo mESSENGER, i expected that he would start talking to me the next day but he didn't. I just want to ask, if you guys learned that someone has a crush on you, is there any instance that you'd like that gurl too or you just try to avoid her?
How can we know if you're really interested?

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I like my brothers friend and i dont know if he likes me bac


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 6:36 am

Hi. OK, heres the deal ive know this guy since 5th grade and im now a freshman in high school. This guy is one of my brothers best friends. Now, me and this guy talk all the time over the computer and on the phone but when he comes over to hang with my brother he doesnt even say "Hi." Me and him FLIRT all the time on the computer but i seems like when hes around my brother hes actting different. I just cant seem to get the nerve to ask him if he likes me the way i like him. What should i do ? Should i just ask him i he likes me? Or should i just move on?

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Girl Likes Boy... (Hook Up)


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 2:43 am

Me and this boy like each other. we never admitted it to each otehr but we know we do. we have like a thing. and were going to be walking together to the park tomoroww and i want to hookup with him and im sure he wnats to hookup with me, but.... i dont know how to and im really nervous. i know im ready cuz im not young! im 15! but i dont wanna look stupid !

Help? Appricate ANYTHING!
Love --




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mymom, my boyfriend, my problem!


Posted Tuesday July 31 2007, 2:39 am

ok so im 14 and im in complete love with my boyfriend and i know u here that all of the time but we hang out everyday and when im not with him its the worste feeling in the world and we've been together 5 months and we've been inseperable ever since so we were down in my basement the one day and me and him r kind of kinky haha and we like to fool around but we've never had sex and we arent going to b/c wer'e too young and there is too many risks so anyway, i went to put on a skirt [so he didnt have to pull my pants down b/c my mom was upstairs] and then i told my mom i was going to "model" the skirt for him so i wnet downstairs and out it on then he was laying on the floor and i went to step over him so he could look up my skirt ...

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Its about a boy


Posted Monday July 30 2007, 10:39 pm

ok i have been friends with this boy for about 2 years now and im starting to like him more than a friend but if i ask him out it might ruin our friendship but i think he might like me to because he kinda flirts with me and when were in class and we need partners he always picks me and when im doin some work and i look over at him somtimes i catch him lookin at me wat should i do?plz help me!!

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Should I??


Posted Monday July 30 2007, 10:22 pm

Ok, Sorry if this is not in the right category..but ok here it is

i currently live in mexico, i am head over heals in love with this guy, & he claims he loves me too...((he isnt myboyfriend though, not anymore at least))..we have been *together* for almost 1 1/2 yrs.. i basically feel like i cant live without him, he is te best thing that has ever happened to me... & last year i went away to the U.S for a month while he stayed here is mexico,before i went to the US everything was picture perfect with us.. he loved me so much & i knew he did, we always saw eachother, we talked everyday, he treated me like i was the most important thing in the world... which made me love him even more.. but when i came back.. everth...

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Him


Posted Monday July 30 2007, 9:47 pm

15/f

Okay, I realllly like this guy. & sometimes I wonder if he likes me back.
He acts like he does but then we dont talk for a long time. I met him about a month ago at an amusement park. But I kinda knew him before.
Anyways, he messaged me on myspace maybe 2 or 3 days ago. & he said that he was in Tenn. & that he would come over to my house when he got back the next day. But he didnt? & then I messaged him back telling him that he was supposed to come over, i noticed that he read it, but he never replyed. It kinda pissed me off and I really like him alot. & He said all I want to do is hold you and kiss you, im not going to try to do anything that you dont want to do. and I thought that tha...

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crush


Posted Monday July 30 2007, 8:30 pm

okay i have a crush on this boy named Dominick. He has been away for a month and I am seeing him at my friend's house on Sunday. She is having a welcome home/going away party because him and his brother are leaving for college a couple days after. he told me that he did have a crush on me but he didn't think it was worth fusing with. he's become very close to me..I tell him everything and he tells me everything. So on Sunday i want to kiss him. It may sound lame but how to i go about doing it, not the actual kiss because i've kissed someone before0. I just don't want it to be awkward or anything. we both don't want relationships right now so we both know nothing between us is going to change. I just don't want to do it and regret doing it...

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don't know what to expect


Posted Monday July 30 2007, 7:24 pm

so me and this guys like eachother. we have had a "thing" for like 6 months. at school we were all over eachother. i haven't seen him since the last day of school. we talk everyday on the phone but now i am going to see him tomorrow night at this amusement park. i don't know what to expect. i still like him and he still likes me. is it going to be awkward? i don't want it to be so how can i make it not be? also, my friends are going but i don't know some of his friends that are cause they go to a diff. school.

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soo will ya help me?


Posted Monday July 30 2007, 7:02 pm

well see ive been with my boyfriend 4 almost 8 months. I love him 2 death. I hope he loves me i mean he tells me he does but i dont like him goin to the mall or anywhere without me. im afraid that he might find someone else.
idk im jealous i guess. will someone please help/
WHAT DO I DO???

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What does this dream mean?


Posted Monday July 30 2007, 7:00 pm

Sorry if it`s in the wrong category!
Last night I had one of the weirdest dreams I`ve had in a long time. First, me & one of my guy friends who I used to like, but he never liked me, kissed for a few minutes. THEN, I don`t know what happened to the other guy, but all the sudden my best friend`s boyfriend (who I don`t think I like) & I were holding hands & kissing for a long time. After that, (once again, I have no clue where he went, but he was gone) I was talking to my best friend (the one whose boyfriend kissed me) & telling her that I loved him (her boyfriend) & we kissed. When I was telling her that, I had apparently forgotten they were going out, & I suddenly remembered & started apologizing, but she ...

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hes 24 im 17


Posted Monday July 30 2007, 5:24 pm

well, im a 17 year old female and very mature for my age. i dont hangout with much people my age or from my school. i started hooking up with this guy, he just turned 24. we both like eachother and it sucks, because we already discussed we cant date because im just 17. since 18 is the legal age he says he wishes i was 18 but would prfer 20. it just really sucks cuz i like him alot now. and we talked about what we would do if we find other people or start hooking up with someone else, and he told me he`d probably not say anything, just stop talking to me. and yeah that sucks, but the worst part is , is that i`d be really hurt if that actually happened. what should i do and what can i say to him? i never get like this, never end up like guys, especially like this, i am not a clingy person

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