Okay, I realllly like this guy. & sometimes I wonder if he likes me back.
He acts like he does but then we dont talk for a long time. I met him about a month ago at an amusement park. But I kinda knew him before.
Anyways, he messaged me on myspace maybe 2 or 3 days ago. & he said that he was in Tenn. & that he would come over to my house when he got back the next day. But he didnt? & then I messaged him back telling him that he was supposed to come over, i noticed that he read it, but he never replyed. It kinda pissed me off and I really like him alot. & He said all I want to do is hold you and kiss you, im not going to try to do anything that you dont want to do. and I thought that that was really sweet and not a lot of guys do that. Ever since that I cant stop thinking about him, literally and its breaking my heart. What do I do?
He's playing a game with you. And wants to see if you WILL be willing to hookup with him anyways because he probably knows that you like him.
"I'm not going to try to do anything that you don't want to do".
That usually means he will try, and he is trying this on you already anyway, thats why he never replied back to you that one time, he's trying to see if you'll say " I will do it". Don't this guy is totally not worth it.
Save yourself from any more of an heartache in the future, don't fall for these guys with tiny little skeems so you can give up your innocence.
Its harsh and cruel but its true that alot of guys play on the "I like you card" and "You're too cute" when they don't really mean it. They just want a hook-up , and if you let them have it, they'll see you as an easy girl and trust me you don't want that.
Your still young, just be careful theres guys out there who want to take advantage of you. But don't let them. You deserve a better guy, whos surreal in what he's saying. You'll find a good guy, you just have to be patient, you have your whole life ahead of you, Hope this helps! [ phatdopelove's advice column | Ask phatdopelove A Question ]
VictoriaGrace answered Monday July 30 2007, 11:51 pm: Im 15 and trust me i just got over the same thing your going through. The guy sounds like he's playing you. He has you on a string by your msg about his return and what he said. You need to severe that string and find a new guy before you get too deep with this guy sweety:) Good wishes to you [ VictoriaGrace's advice column | Ask VictoriaGrace A Question ]
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