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locked up x-boys dad going to press charges agenst me
so i had a boyfriend...
he was also my best friend.
he got locked up and i got another boyfriend.
ive still tried wrighting him and now his dad says he is going to contact a lawyer because in my letters it says sexual && drug prefrences. but i dont remember writing anything obsene. he also says he is contacting a lawyer because my friend//xboy dosent want anything to do with me because of my new boyfriend...
and before, i had made (my now x) boy a myspace and now his dad freaked about that too.
i dont know what to do. i dont think i should get introuble. i feel terrible. i have no clue what to do. my parents dont know about my new boy because hes black and i dont want to tell my new boy about the trouble because it has to do with my old boy and he would be devistated.
someone, please help. im only 15/f.
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Well.. in order for him to actually be successful in this, he'll need to present the TRUTH in your letters with the "innuendo" he said you had in there.
If he can't grab that out of his ass, you walk and he looks like a piece of shit.
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I'd say just go with what Victoria said. Ignore the threats - it sounds like ramblings of a guy who's just trying find some way to get to you. You won't be getting into any trouble so don't worry about it. Look at this in a logical way - since when has it ever been illegal to talk about anything sexual or about drugs? What are they going to do? What kind of chanrges can they possibly press against you? My knowledge of law is not extensive but even I can see it's all a lot of rubbish. Don't worry about it at all. Cut him (your ex) loose because you don't need someone like that holding you back and making your life hell.
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It sounds like your totally stressed out my dear and thats not surprising:( But maybe the boyfriend in lock up was the one who is lieing to his father in order to somehow get back at you for something? It sounds like you just need to let go of the boy in lock up and deal with whats happening with your life outside him before you get into more trouble. Center yourself on this new guy and dealing with your parents to keep your life going. :) Good wishes to you:)
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