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hes 24 im 17
well, im a 17 year old female and very mature for my age. i dont hangout with much people my age or from my school. i started hooking up with this guy, he just turned 24. we both like eachother and it sucks, because we already discussed we cant date because im just 17. since 18 is the legal age he says he wishes i was 18 but would prfer 20. it just really sucks cuz i like him alot now. and we talked about what we would do if we find other people or start hooking up with someone else, and he told me he`d probably not say anything, just stop talking to me. and yeah that sucks, but the worst part is , is that i`d be really hurt if that actually happened. what should i do and what can i say to him? i never get like this, never end up like guys, especially like this, i am not a clingy person
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Age ain't nothing but a number. If you really like each other, you don't really see age as an issue. You say yall can't date because you're only 17, who says you can't date a guy whos 24?.
The law can't do something about that. It is only is an issue if yall have sex and tell. If yall do lay down low, it'll be trouble for him if you will tell.. It's not anyone elses buisness to be up in your buisness. + PLUS your close to the age of 18, if he can wait for you til you turn 18 to have sex, than he's a keeper.
You're not clingy at all if you think you are, you just found someone you really like, thats all and if its mutual and both of yall agree on things, then yall could pursue into a healthy relationship. So listen to your heart feels you should do <3. Hope this helps.
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I personally think that age shouldn't bother you. Yeah, the both of you could get into trouble if you were to tell someone, BUT if you were to keep it silent, things could go well.
If that doesn't seem like an option, when do you turn 18? If you turn 18 soon, hold off until your birthday & then start going out then. If your birthday is far from now, stay friends & then approach each other when you turn 18.
I know it may be hard since you both have feelings for each other, but this could work out. And so you don't think I have my head in my ass like you might with the person below, I'm 16.
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Well I'm only 14 ,but I have been alot of relationships. So if you both like each other age should not matter! He might be using that as an excuse ,but probably not! You should probably say like if we both have feelings for eachother age shouldn't matter and just be very nice and understanding to what he says back! And be very open and maybe if you can't be boyfriend- girlfriend say well can we still be friends and hang out and maybe if you guys hang out for a while he'll really actually believe age doesn't matter and you'll end up together! But just be nice and hang out and stuff!
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