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need help from guys
i really like a guy right now. But we're not close. He's my classmate but we don't talk. We once chatted in Yahoo mESSENGER, i expected that he would start talking to me the next day but he didn't. I just want to ask, if you guys learned that someone has a crush on you, is there any instance that you'd like that gurl too or you just try to avoid her?
How can we know if you're really interested?
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When I find out someone has a crush on me, honestly, I sort of avoid them. I don't know why I do it- I just do. Whether its embarrassment or flattery. I'm not sure.. but I think its usually embarrassment. I don't know how to face them, especially if I know I'm not interested in them.
I think its kind of wrong for a guy to just like someone because someone likes them. Its just lust- not love.
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I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
--Jack
(15/m)
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