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my best friend is leaving..
Posted Tuesday September 4 2007, 1:26 am
So there's this guy.. I call him my best friend. We're kinda dating but not, because he's going away to basic training in a few weeks. He told me he didn't want a girlfriend while he was away because he didn't want to worry about what they were doing, hence us not being together. Anyways, it hasn't hit me about him leaving yet, but I know it will soon. I was just wondering what are some things I could do to keep myself busy and not think about him so much while he's gone? I don't have too many friends to really hang out with & keep me busy, but I definately don't want to be stuck at home all depressed. Thanks!
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b*tchy flirting
Posted Tuesday September 4 2007, 12:41 am
whenever a guy flirts with me instead of flirting back im a total bitch. i'll give them some attitude and diss them or something. this is only with guys i don't know very well. when my guy friends flirt i'm really comfortable but now all my guy friends have girlfriends and i'd like to meet more guys. how can i fix this problem?
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FROM: i need a 2nd opinion
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 11:43 pm
I became depressed and never liked myself because of who I am I want to run away from every one to keep them away from my depression. But I couldn’t hold it in, I told them what was wrong and they said I should tell Lara how I feel. I deny it for 7 years to not tell her but it got to the point that I was about to blow! So I told Lara that I am bi sexual and I am in love with her. Lara was in shocked but stayed there by my side to listen to me. She respected me and will try to help me as much as she can.
After I told Lara how I felt 10 months ago I went to a party and met this guy, nothing happen but I told Lara about it. She then got mad, she said she was not sure to be happy for me or pissed. I didn’t understand what she...
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theres this guyy
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 10:29 pm
Theres this guy that tried to get with me last year, but I was "kinda" in a "relationship." haha
Anyways, he's a senior now, and im a sophomore, so there's kind of an age difference... Never been with a guy that much older than me.
Anyways, I kinda wanna hook up with him (butttt just like kissing not sex!!) because hes so hot hes so frickin hottt =]]
But I'm not really sure how to, because we don't have any classes (we had one last yearr) but yea so I don't see him so how could I get to hook up with him?!
THANKS!
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cant date til year
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 10:11 pm
well this kid i really like, he knows i like him now, and he said he cant date until college, a year from now. but he said he wants to get to know me and thinks im attractive and nice or soemthing so..what do i do?
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turning my boyfriend on
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 8:49 pm
me & my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year.. on the 20th it will be..
hes been away at college and is coming home soon. Now we love each other, no question. But I would like to do something sexy for him. Any ideas?? everything is welcomed!!Thanks!! =]
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not sure.
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 8:47 pm
14/f
okay im gonna apolize now for the lengthh.
so friend of my familys died a few days died a few days ago and at the wake you no they have the whole line of family and your supposed to shake hand or hug them or whatev. well i got to his son whos a year older then me and i never really talked to him before. and we like stared at each other for a second and then i decided to give him a hug bc i felt bad and everythingg. and then i dont know it like felt right, i just dont how to explain it with out sounding completely corny. and like i hug guys all the time not to sound slutty or anything but this time it just felt different.. in a good way. haha and after that i was thinking about him alot.
and the nex...
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confused
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 7:27 pm
16/f
HEPL! im a plan looking girl with naturally dark red hair, glasses no butt what so ever, DD's, im about 5ft 5", and i only weigh 120lbs, i sound like a pretty chic dont i? all my friends say im pretty, heck even my guy friends say im pretty. but even when i meet some guy for the first tim e he wont do any thing i mean he'll talk to me and stare at my boobs but he'll say he'd rather be my friend instead of my boyfriend. i dont want to be the girl guys only want to be friends with i want to be the girl everyon wants. is there any way
for me to make myself more desireable in the guys
eyes ?
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Like, but not know?
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 7:18 pm
I'm really confused as to why all of these teenagers on here keep saying that they like this guy, but they want to get to know him. I don't understand how you can like a guy that you don't know. Maybe I'm just not shallow, but I'm 14 and that's the age that most people who post those questions are and I've never liked someone without knowing them first. I mean aren't you suppose to get to know someone and then decide you like them. Every hot guy that you see isn't someone you like, right? I mean I only like guys that I know and I like them based on their personality. Sure, I think guys are hot, but I don't like them. I don't even know them. lol I guess what I'm asking is if I'm weird or what?
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i really like him, i may actually love him
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 6:09 pm
i`ve been with him for 3 months now and things have been going not so swell lately. 3 months isnt alot but we spent every single day together for two months till he moved, so we are really close.. well WERE really close. im 19 and hes 23, he lives 45 minutes away but we manage to hangout alot. he has been really worried lately that i cheat and he gets mad when i go out because he thinks every guy will want me. which is ridiculous to me.
i really like him, i may actually love him and i want all of this fuss to stop. i care about him so much and everytime i tell him, he like doesnt belive me and it hurts. i have kind of felt like he has been mean to me lately and trying to drive me away so he doesnt have to brea...
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want to do something nice, not cheesy for my man
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 6:08 pm
i`ve been with him for 3 months now and things have been going not so swell lately. 3 months isnt alot but we spent every single day together for two months till he moved, so we are really close.. well WERE really close. im 19 and hes 23, he lives 45 minutes away but we manage to hangout alot. he has been really worried lately that i cheat and he gets mad when i go out because he thinks every guy will want me. which is ridiculous to me.
i really like him, i may actually love him and i want all of this fuss to stop. i care about him so much and everytime i tell him, he like doesnt belive me and it hurts. i have kind of felt like he has been mean to me lately and trying to drive me away so he doesnt have to brea...
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bestfriend likes my boyfriend
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 5:03 pm
OKay. Here is my situation. My best friend, let's call her Rose, likes my boyfriend(let's call him Albert). But aparently, she liked him before he and I were together. Albert and I have been together for 2 and half months. I love him with all my heart and he loves me too. But I have known my friend for 9 years! And she only told me two days ago that she liked him. I hate seeing her in all this pain. Why should my happiness have to cause her pain?! It's just not fair. Not to mention Albert and Rose were good friends in middle school, but then sort of had a falling out. Now all three of us are going into our senior year of high school, and they have finally fixed whatever miscommunication they had in eighth grade. So at first I thought maybe ...
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is it?
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 4:34 pm
is it wierd to like a guy thats 3 years older than u
for ex
if ur 13 and hese 16 ??
thanks
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Posted Monday September 3 2007, 4:02 pm
ok so last summer i met a new friend. turns out her brother was a guy that i used to go to middle school with. so i went to a party nd he was there nd we were like staring at eachother at all times. so i started dancing with a few guys and he noticed and started dancing with some girls. a while after i noticed he was coming my way i was sitting by the way, then once he was close i stood up and walked away i have no idea why i did this but yeah i seemed like a totoal retart. a few days after he imed me i guess his sister gave me my sn. we bacame real good friends, after some time we like had nothing to talk about nd our conversations were akward. i told his sister that i liked him alot nd yes she went and told him after that things got even ...
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age difference laws. help! (north carolina)
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 3:56 pm
i live in north carolina. and im kind of confused about age difference laws in relationships.
im just going to give a little background on what I think
my friend is 15 and dates an 18 year old guy...ever since they started dating her parents have not liked him. they told her not to see him, and secretly she still has. and they've caught them together atleast 3 times. and once they were even in the middle of having sex. the cops were called and everything. they couldn't arrest him because he wasn't four years older then her, and it wasn't rape because the age difference was only three years.
well i like a guy who is 18 and i'm just confused about age difference laws and stu...
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I'm getting over him..but still...
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 2:30 pm
Ahh okay. so I met this guy online, and I developed a crush on him. he told me he didn't like me in that way...and crushed my heart in two. It was really hard to get over him at first. I cried a lot...I got really jealous over every girl he talked to. But now, like 5 months passed and i think I might be over him...But still...the tiny feeling of jealousy lingers...I tell myself "ew no...he's too ugly for you. he's this..and he's that.." just tiny negative things (that aren't true) to make myself feel better about the situation. But that little jealousy is still left. what can I do to completely get over him? X_X
15/f.
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should i tell him how i really feel?
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 1:03 pm
ok so i was dating this amazing person..but he broke up with me and we havent really talked..but when i see him around at local concerts (hes in a band) he'll say hi..but i get so choked up and i can barely keep myslef from crying so i dont sy much. and i just found out that hes already interested in somone else..idk if hes serious about her.and i really really really dont want to be without him..should i tell him how i feel..??? how?? in person..over the fone or myspace?..or shouild i stay quiet?? idk what to do help me please!!
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I feel like a bad person.
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 1:01 pm
16/f. So this guy and I like each other. But about 3 weeks ago, he broke up with his girlfriend of a year and a half because she cheated. But I'm friends with her and she's still in love with him. Therefore, I feel like a terrible friend. I mean, I would horrible if someone I still loved was going out with one of my friends, and I really don't want to hurt my friend like that. I don't know what to do. This guy and I want to get to know each other better of course, so we're not gonna go out or anything right away, but I still feel bad. And sometimes I wonder why he likes me... I mean, they went out for so long and just broke up, but now he likes me? I would think he would need some time to get over her. I mean, we get along really well and s...
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this guy isn't talking to me and i can't tell what he wants
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 12:57 pm
He said that we are going to wait for each other. Then he comes home from camp and he tells me that he met this girl and kissed her. He won't talk to me or message me back on any of the messages i give him. Then all of a sudden he breaks up with this girl and meets another. he tells her that she was the best thing that has ever happened to him. I see him at a concert and he keeps looking at me and by the end of the concert he finally talks to me and we are acting like friends again. but after the concert I try and ask him if he still likes me and he doesnt answer me. He won't message me back. He does the same thing to me again. What do I do? I really like him and all I can do is think about him
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my xboy got locked up, i got a new boy, new boy cheated, n x
Posted Monday September 3 2007, 12:17 pm
okay well, its long... but basic form is fast...
josh is my current boy, brandon is my x-boy.
in basic form: josh skrewed some girl while going out with me and i have him admitting it on recording but i havnt said anything to him yet, and brandons step dad wants to do everything he can to mess my life up and upset me and my family. and now that brandons coming back i dont know what to do... help please! please. brandons coming back into my life again in a week.
in long form:
josh and i have always had a thing but had never gone out. brandon and i had gone out, and we where going out untill brandon got locked up. at first it was okay, we sent eachother letters, but then we ...
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