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want to do something nice, not cheesy for my man
i`ve been with him for 3 months now and things have been going not so swell lately. 3 months isnt alot but we spent every single day together for two months till he moved, so we are really close.. well WERE really close. im 19 and hes 23, he lives 45 minutes away but we manage to hangout alot. he has been really worried lately that i cheat and he gets mad when i go out because he thinks every guy will want me. which is ridiculous to me.
i really like him, i may actually love him and i want all of this fuss to stop. i care about him so much and everytime i tell him, he like doesnt belive me and it hurts. i have kind of felt like he has been mean to me lately and trying to drive me away so he doesnt have to breakup with me, and let me do it.
we are going to my lakehouse tomorrow for the night and i want to do nice things for him. people have told me to write him a letter or even a poem but i feel like he may think its cheesy/too soon for all of that.
do guys really like that kind of stuff? what could i do for him. minus dinner and stuff
thanks alot!
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How about planning a romantic evening? I think a letter is a bit over board, but talking can be just as effective. Have a fun day, worry free, and don't even talk about issues that have been bothering you. Swim, hike, ride bikes, go for a walk, any activities you can do. Dote on him, showing how you enjoy your time together.
At night, let things slow down. Get cozy and start a calm conversation. If things get confrontational on his part, be straight forward with something like "It hurts me when you accuse me of cheating on other guys, because I don't love any other guys, I love you." Show him exactly how much you care!
If it's heartfelt and sincere, he will be the same.
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I know how you feel
I had the same problem.It started off like that in my relationship but later it got better..
he has been alot rude to me too unsure about me bieng honest to him... but i know deep inside he loves me alot..thats what keeps me going... but my love is a long distance one..I only met him once in 11 months since our relationship started..
Hey I suggest you try to convince him that you truely like him before dropping him out anyway...it could be just that he must be feeling very insecure becase in his eyes you must be the most attractive women or something like that... its called jelousy in love ;)
I think a poem would be great..I tryed the same (when i had the same prob as you) and i think my bf loved it...and try to get a private time together to talk out how you feel about him not understanding you.Look him in the eyes while you talk...
This should help
if he still thinks your cheating on him then i'd say you'll have to drop him cuz its not going to workout.the relationship would be a heartbreak..
anyway explain this to him too... so that he understands how you feel...
here are links for websites with love poems if you want to check them out to help you write one...
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but i suggest you write a poem that is more entirely meant for him with your feeling and how you feel of not bieng truested etc....
send him an e-card too..here are links
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hope i helped
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