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i really like him, i may actually love him
i`ve been with him for 3 months now and things have been going not so swell lately. 3 months isnt alot but we spent every single day together for two months till he moved, so we are really close.. well WERE really close. im 19 and hes 23, he lives 45 minutes away but we manage to hangout alot. he has been really worried lately that i cheat and he gets mad when i go out because he thinks every guy will want me. which is ridiculous to me.
i really like him, i may actually love him and i want all of this fuss to stop. i care about him so much and everytime i tell him, he like doesnt belive me and it hurts. i have kind of felt like he has been mean to me lately and trying to drive me away so he doesnt have to breakup with me, and let me do it. he has been breaking my heart that last few days and i cant even talk to him about because he makes me feel like its me.
we are going to my lakehouse tomorrow for the night and i want to do nice things for him. people have told me to write him a letter or even a poem but i feel like he may think its cheesy/too soon for all of that.
do guys really like that kind of stuff? what could i do for him. minus dinner and stuff
thanks alot!
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Thankyou for your question.
Firstly, I quite like the letter option. It may seem a bit old fashioned, but it's a really nice way to get your feelings across. You can tell him how much he means to you and how he shouldn't worry about other guys etc. Make him understand you are committed to him
I'm sure he'd appreciate that in a letter form.
Basically tell him what you've told me and how it hurts you when he doesn't believe you etc.
Tomorrow, when you're with him, along with the letter, perhaps give him a small gift such as a photograph of you two in a frame. It's a sweet thing to do.
Maybe make it a romantic evening - candles with the dinner and petals scattered.
Kiss him spontaneously - just because.
Snuggle up with a movie, or just enjoy the silence cuddling. Maybe even give him a massage, or let him have a day where you wait on him.
It may not seem like alot, but they're quite sensual.
I hope you have a really lovely day and things work out fine for you.
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