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How do i convince him Im not crazy??


Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 4:05 pm

15/F

I've been seeing this guy around school a lot lately. He's so fine. I know that seems shallow and everything but I could not stop thinking about him. So last week I went home and looked him up in the yearbook. I'm a sophmore and he's a junior so I knew where to find him when I looked up his picture.
When I finally found him I realized who the guy actually was. I already know him....he's friends with my ex and I met him through my ex before. I couldn't believe it because he dyed his hair over the summer and let it grow out...long story short he looks nothing like he did last year.
So that night I went to my ex's myspace page and found him and added him to my friends list. He sent me a message asking who I ...

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boy problems


Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 4:03 pm

so i just started dating my bf who's six years older than me (don't worry its legal so thats not the issue) and he just broke up with me and it's the first time i've actually cried about a boy. He says i'm too young and he couldnt' live with himself. can i prove to him that i'm older than my years?

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this guy is a jackass...


Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 3:51 pm

this kid that i liked for the longest time is being such a douche bag. seriously.
wen i was sleeping over my friends housee, and
his friends kept on calling me and asking me if i would go out with him like a million times, then his friends IM me from his sn pretending to be him complimenting mee and asking me to hangout and all that shit, and then after the convo he ims me saying sorry that was all my friends..
but in the middle of the convo my bestfriend who is cousins with him ims his bestfriend asking if he liked me nd his bestfriend said yes he does.
i was happy
then my friend asks him if he likes me nd he said no and she said well why do you act as if you do and he said because its funny, and she wa...

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MAKING A CHOICE!!!


Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 3:16 pm

I have been with my current girlfriend for almost 2 years and im 100% sure she's "The One". We have had plans to move in together when she finishes High School soon. We want to live in Texas because we both think it would be the best place for "US". Then in the last few months she has started to want "US" to live in Pennsylvania in an aprtment around her mom for 2 years then move to Texas. She's starting to go threw that point where every parent and child starts to relize they arent children anymore. She think's that waiting 2 more years will make it less hard to leave her mom. I have explained to her that it wont no matter how long she waits it's still gonna be hard for anyones parent no matter how long you wa...

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i,m scared


Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 11:29 am

hey the problem is i have to focus on my studied this year and i really plan on it but i keep seeing things that distract me alot and i have a lot of upstacles that will make me wanna date someone but i really don,t wan that wha do you think i should do
sincerly lovable

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confused girl. !?


Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 1:41 am

okay, i have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years total. on and off, only once. which was last november-february. while we weren't together i had sex with this guy i knew for forever named brandon. after my DUMB fling with him was over, jon(my boyfriend.) and i got back together. and we're happy. now, it's september, and brandon sent me a message for the first time since feb, to talk. well we have been IMing eachother for two weeks. idk what im feeling . i feel guilty for talking to brandon. and i know something is still there with me and him. but he told me not to breakup with jon b/c he isnt sure me andd him could workout. what should i do?
i love jon, i dont want to end it with him. how do i get over brandon for sure, completely.

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whats he doing?


Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 12:03 am

Ok so i've fallen really hard for one of my like best friends Josh. Now josh has a girlfriend and i know that. But he calls me everynight just to talk and he's always making plans and telling me to come see him. And apparently we both constantly talk about each other to our mutual friend. We work together and at work we steal each others rings (and wear them all day)and joke around like crazy and flirt. He never talks about his girlfriend and doesn't hang out with her much. Does he like me? What should i say? I will never be the other woman cause i will never beleive in it. So what should i do?

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Asking a girl out


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 10:19 pm

M/16 Ok, so me and my friends have been hanging out with a small group of girls. One of the girls I kind of like and I would like to ask her out. One of my friends heard that she likes me, so I'm really not too nervous about asking her out. I just dont know what to say. I mean, I know I shouldn't say "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" But when I ask her out, do I literally say "Would you like to go out with me?" Just confused about what to really say. Thanks

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Anniersary Gift


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 10:13 pm

So me & my boyfriend have been together for like 5 & half months.I'm trying to figure out what to get him as a anniversary gift & I can't think of anything..so far for christmas & his birthday I gave him a necklace when we weren't even together as a gift when we were talking & I got him some shorts & a shirt from AE & flip flops.Now I have nothing else to get him.If anyone has any ideas what to get that would be appreciated.Thanks in advance :]

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confession


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 9:59 pm

how do you tell a guy that you like him? if possible, i need help with what to say word by word...i feel like if i don't tell him sooner, it'll be too late!

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longer kissing... help!


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 9:21 pm

14/f
ok well my b/f and i have been going out for like 11 months. we have just started kissing like just a peck on the lips like everyday when we leave after school. but thats it. and we never hold hands... which im working on that, and im trying to... well anyway,
i am going to be having a party soon. and so my 4-H and my friends will be over, and then after a couple hours my 4-H club will leave and my friends will be over. so then the party will be like a day or 2 after me and my bf's year anniversary. well anyway, i kinda wanted to know how to keep kissing longer. he ALWAYS moves away from me after a second or 2. i want to know what i can do to have him keep a kiss longer... or anything about french kissing....

...

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What Do I Do?


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 7:19 pm

I'm a tomboy and all the girls at my school wear the same types of clothes from the same types of stores. All the guys that I like went out with all of those girls. They liked me but wouldn't go out with me so I don't know if it's because of me being a tomboy or what. I mean I'm not a complete tomboy,I wear some of that stuff every now and then but not all the time,so I don't know if I should just be like those girls or what. Well,also I wasn't popular and they were,so maybe that's what it was. I know you're not supposed to change who you are but I don't know what to do.

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it happened too fast.


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 6:34 pm

i'll try not to make this too long. so there's this guy named joe, and he just got out of a relationship with this girl, they were together for about 5 or 6 months. (we r 15 by the way). anyway, he and this girl gave each other oral sex. recently, me and joe have been talking and flirting, and we like each other. i think his friends know that. well recently he became kind of popular. i'm in between popular and like...normal. anyway so he was grinding with me at this dance a few nights ago. online we have been having really intense talks about like, how far i would go with a guy and i said i wouldn't go past feeling up for a while. he said that that might eventually push us apart because he has such a high sex drive (this was like a week ago...

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love...in love


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 6:15 pm

Okay so my boyfriend and i have been pretty serious for about 8 months.. and we say i love you to each other and stuff like everyday... but im IN love with him... and when i ask if he is with me he says he loves me but he doesn't know if hes in love with me...
but to me there are two kinds of love.
loving someone like a good friend or family or something like that.
or being IN love with a girlfriend/boyfriend that you've been with for a while or known for a while.
and i don't know why he isn't... but lately when I've talked to him I wont say i love you back to him.. and i think he's getting the point.. because he knows that i love him... but he also knows that it hurts me.. but if you answer this don't say anythi...

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what to do now.


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 4:56 pm

There is this guy that I have liked for atleast nine months now. We used to hang out but then we sort of stopped. Recently i have been seeing him before school and he would come over nd we would talk.

Now I wont you to know right now that he is not one of those godly guys. He is a bit of a rabel and I hope most of you know what that means.

Now I know he is somewhat atracted to me but I was wondering if you guys had any ideas on how to make him really want me. sort of like how to real him in until i have him hooked and also some ideas of how to get us to hang out.

please help i rate high.

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relation


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 4:16 pm

does anyone know a book or a song about a girl who is in love with a gay guy? (even better if the gay guy is her best friend) i need to read or listen to something that relates to me

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We both like each other BUT...


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 4:11 pm

hes my best friends brother.

and hes 21 and im 17.

my friend says shes ok with it but do you think shes just saying that?

we both like each other, should we go for it?

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another guy in my life!!!


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 3:49 pm

i have a boyfriend that im in love with! we've been together for a year and a half and in general he makes me happy but we do argue alot, thats just what we do and it doesnt bother me. but... theres this guy i just met, i cant believe it but he takes my breathe away everytime i see him. hes incredible, and i love everything about him(atleast from what i know about him). i really like him and i cant get him out of my head!!!!!! he makes me smile, and has the most sexiest dimples EVER!!!! i love my boyfriend but the fact that im thinking about even considereing being with another guy breaks my heart. and i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!! i try everything to get him out of my head! i'll sit there and think about how much i wanna spend the rest...

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Being sweet!!


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 2:57 pm

Ok....do any of ya'll guys out there do anything sweet for your girlfriends....stuff "just because"...not for any particular reason. If so what do you do? And for the girls.......what have your boyfriends done for you?

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does it mean anything....


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 7:48 am

Okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and everything is going really good.
but well we have been trying to kiss for the last week and well im ready for it and i told him i could kiss him but he said he wants to be the man...but evertime we are about to do it he backs off and we sit around joking about how we cant do it..
does it mean anything bad or....



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