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this guy is a jackass...


Question Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 3:51 pm

this kid that i liked for the longest time is being such a douche bag. seriously.
wen i was sleeping over my friends housee, and
his friends kept on calling me and asking me if i would go out with him like a million times, then his friends IM me from his sn pretending to be him complimenting mee and asking me to hangout and all that shit, and then after the convo he ims me saying sorry that was all my friends..
but in the middle of the convo my bestfriend who is cousins with him ims his bestfriend asking if he liked me nd his bestfriend said yes he does.
i was happy
then my friend asks him if he likes me nd he said no and she said well why do you act as if you do and he said because its funny, and she was like i dont find it funny, why wont you do it to someone else and he was like becausee.. and she was like why just say it. nd he goes i dont know
that was after i left her house from the sleepover
she didnt show me that convo because i was happyy she didnt want me gettin in a bad mood,
then one day i broke down i was like this is pointless and stuff he should make a move nd then she was like wanna see something and she shows me the convo and i was like ... wow... and she goes see ? he thinks its funny!

then i was like he crossed the line, so i imed him and i was like hey i have to talk to you and he goes ok nd i was like stop playing the little games your playing with me, i know wat youre trying to do and its to make me upset, just because i like you doesnt mean u can toy with my feelings like that and he goes tru dat and then he kept on saying that to everything i said, and then i was like you hate me now? and he goes tru dat and i was like ok well i would like to know wat i did wrong and he was like you were born nd i was like why r you such an asshole nd he goes because your an asshole nd then he was like i hate you because your an asshole.

then like 3 days after that i was hanging out with his cousin who is my bestfriend and my other friend, and we were walking around his house and he was there and he brought it up nd he goes that was my friend chris who talked to her. it wasnt me.


then at the mall one day he kept on staring at mee and wen i looked at him he kept on staring for like a second and turnd away, he kept on doing thatt

he was pretending he liked me all along because this lasted from like last yearrr, nd that shit just happend like last month. he like lead me on this whole timee, i stil remember the first convo we had nd the first time we met. he was soo different, its making me so upset =[
i dont know wat to do.
i think he's starting with the whole "im gonna pretend i like you again beacuse its funny to see you get hurt" kinda thing



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Additional info, added Wednesday September 19 2007, 3:55 pm:
oh and before this whole mean part, i was at the mall and he was there with his friend and i was stnding with this other kid and he kept on hugging me and the kid i liked kept on looking and stuff, then when icome over there with the guyy, my bestfriend[his cousin] introuded the guy to him and his friend and then she goes this is stella, and he was like whos stella? [ he was joking ] nd then he looked at me and smiled, that was after the sleepover but before the time that i imed him..

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thelaura answered Saturday September 22 2007, 10:55 am:
I'm not quite sure what your question is exactly, but I have a few pointers for you seeing as noone has tried answering/helping.

If I was in your position, I'd ignore him. Don't bother to IM him, or talk to him if you see him. Don't act like his silly games are getting to you (even though they are).
Once he sees you don't care any more, he may make the effort to be nice to you and apologize (that is if he actually truthfully likes you).
He's being a general immature teenager at the moment. and he's not worth your time.
I know you're hurting, but if you take my advice, you will probably see a change in him.
After all, he probably doesn't want to lose you.
and if he continues to be a jerk, who the hell needs him any way? You can do so much better.

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