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Asking a girl out
M/16 Ok, so me and my friends have been hanging out with a small group of girls. One of the girls I kind of like and I would like to ask her out. One of my friends heard that she likes me, so I'm really not too nervous about asking her out. I just dont know what to say. I mean, I know I shouldn't say "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" But when I ask her out, do I literally say "Would you like to go out with me?" Just confused about what to really say. Thanks
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okay before you ask her out you really need to spend some personal time together that way you can get to know each other better on a more personal level. when you are in a big group sometimes you can't say things like you can when your alone. just go up to her and say "so i was wondering if you wanted to hang out sometime" and then she says yeah ask her whatever date you want to hang out and if thats okay with her. hang out with her a few more times andthen ask her out. most of the time you can say do you want to go out with me. its theeasiet way and i imagine it isn't as nerve racking to say. don't worry about it just go with the flow and see where things take you.
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One time this guy walked up to my locker, and litterally said 'so I heard you like me, and i like you. so you wanna go out?' I was like, uh yeah? So don't say that. Haha. When your asking a girl out, just be chill. Their the same, we just have boobs and vaginas. Going too far out can be a turn off also though. So if you find a balance your as good as gold. Such as 'so _______ I'm going to the movies this weekend and i was wondering if maybe you would want to come' or something. It's suddle, but cute :D
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Before asking her to be your "girlfriend", I would ask her to hang out just the two of you. Maybe go up to her and say "Maybe sometime we could hang out or something", but be more assertive about it.. I know its nervewracking, but you should ask her to hang out before you ask her to go steady :]
Good luck!
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