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My BFAND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 3 YRS BUT NOW HE DONT WNA
Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 11:18 am
ME 19/F HIM24/M we have been togethe for 3 yearsand we live together at hismoms house and well we have been rough patches andall but we mde it throughhe justu tgot this new job making 4 grand every month but the bad thing is hes gone from like 6 in the morning to like 10 or 11 at night i nver get to see him rally anymore and hes so tiredwhen h ges home hedoesnt want t be held on or doesnt want to do anything physical well my job i only mad lik emaybe 6 or 650 in a month so h wanted me to quit so i could find abetter job and we could move out ad get a place together so i go to my job quit come hom gt job interviews lined up and all so we have a wonderful day that day cause he had it off and we were having a great day emotionally and physic...
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Bad Guy? Lots of attraction
Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 10:28 am
One of my best friends introduced me to her high school-ex boyfriend about 2 months ago. When I wasn't around, he kept making comments about how gorgeous I was. Well, she told me when we left his house that she'd like to see me and him get together (I set her up with her current boyfriend) and that he seemed to have really changed. Well, we started hanging out a couple of times and we got drunk and ended up making out and talking for hours on end. We never had sex. We can sit on complete opposite sides of the room and talk for 4-5 hours without ever touching each other. Our conversation alone is better than sex. Well, my friend starts telling me that he hasn't changed and that I needed to leave him alone and she tells him to leave me alone....
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song
Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 6:40 am
does anyone know a song about a girl who's in love with her best friend?
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ignoring
Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 4:57 am
How come guys go through spells where they wont talk to you for a week or 2 but then when they do they are like I am tired or just busy? Do they like you or are they trying to ignore you?
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Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 12:59 am
If im somewhere, (like the mall) ill hang out with 1 boy and well flirt but i dont like them. I mean i do but not enough for like a relationship or anything. And after that day, i dont think twice about it. But my friends totally think i like the person...like that i want to date them. i know my friends get the wrong idea, but do u think the guys get the wrong idea?
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i NEED to be with him
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 11:36 pm
i met this guy about 2months ago online and we started talking on the phone about a week later. We feel instantly for eachother. We considered eachother boyfriend/girlfriend. He told me about a month later he really can't do the distance he needs to be able to touch and be intimate. I trust this guy with my life i feel like i have known him for years. We have already talked about me moving down there in January. I dont want to wait that long so i have a week vacation in novemeber when i could easily go down there spend the week with him and get to know eachother in person. I am 18 and i still live with my parents and i need to tell them i need to be with this guy. my mom will probly understand but im not sure my dad will.
Thi...
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turn on
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 10:20 pm
what are some things a man can do to a woman to turn her on, while making out. how do you cause a nipple stand, and is that good?
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homecomeing date?
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 9:37 pm
14/f/freshman
i really like this boy, let's call him E. he's a sophmore.. his older brother is best friends with my older brother, so i see him alot. but i'm kindof shy when it comes to boys, so i dont' talk to him. however, we talk all the time on AIM. i usually see him at school, but i never have the courage to talk to him..
now there's another boy, N. i used to like him, but i don't have those feelings for him anymore. he's three years older than me, a junior. but i've known him since i was 7, because he went to my church. he asked me to go to homecoming with him, and i said idk because i was thinking about askeing E. but he said he didn't want to wait forever, that he had other girls he was gonna as...
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Shy Guy + Shy Girl = BAD!
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 9:02 pm
Well I like this guy that's in like 1 of my classes and he's like the type of guy that's shy towards the girl that he likes...I'm also the type of girl who's shy towards the guy that I like. So I don't know what to do! I'd much rather like for him to come up and talk to me first then for me to have to go up to him, but I don't think that'll happen!:(
So what can I do??? Any advice is greatly appreciated...thanx in advance!
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Mixed messages :[
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 9:01 pm
Well, I started going out with this guy on Friday. I dumped him today, because the relationship was weak, and it felt strained. He was quite upset and very surprised when I dumped him, and he actually told me he wanted to go back out with me. But both of his best friends who I am very tight with told me he only went out with me because he felt bad, and they didn't say it unkindly, they told me because they felt I deserved to know. And I don't get it. If he didn't actually like me, then why was he so upset about me dumping him? And i dont know what I should say to him. He told me to think about going back out with him, and i told him I would think about it. I'm really confused. :( Help pleasee.
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Meeting a Serbian Singer...
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 8:47 pm
Ok, so there's this guy that's a Serbian singer...Duh! He was on like a Serbian singing contest and I watched it over satelite so that's how come I know about him. Anyway, this question may sound stupid, but I really wanna meet him and I need all the help I can get! So if anyone has any ideas on how this could happen then please say so...by the way I visit Serbia like everyother summer because I have relatives over there so it's not like it's impossible to meet him. I'm a really hopeful and optimistic person..lol..but I will do anything to meet him! I was also thinking of getting his adress or email so then I could like mail him, but I don't know what to do anymore...I searched all over the internet! Sorry that this is so long, but if anyon...
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I cant talk to him
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 6:14 pm
I really like this boy. A LOT. But, I haven't even talked to him once. We're both shy. I cant stand not talking to him. How can i get over being shy and talk to him? I want to be his friend and hopefully his girlfriend
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Oh lord another boy problem. Please help?
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 5:51 pm
WEll this guy liked me last year, and then we broke up because he didn't have time to have a girlfriend (his words) and then we started hooking up a lot right before summer and then when summer came he was like i don't want a girlfriend but I still want to hang out with you and I was SO angry because I don't just hook up with guys for nothing. Only when I like them. so i didn't talk to him during the summer. When school came he asked me why and I was like because i don't want to be the girl you just hook up with. and he's like ohh i guess you're right.. but I still like him and I don't know what to do because I really don't like him sometimes and I know that if we go out it will end up bad like the last time but I Like him!! I don't know what to DOOOOO!
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He told other people he liked me, but...
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 5:30 pm
all right, so after he found out I liked him, it turned out he liked me too. but he doesn't TALK to me. and he hasn't looked at me all day. maybe it's cos he's shy, but isn't that pathetic? a little glance in the hallway isn't too scary, is it? augh.
whenever I smile at him, he looks the other way. but the other day, I glanced at him to see he was looking at me, and that was it.
basically, is it cos he's really shy or doesn't like me etc.? thanks!
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How do I prove myself
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 5:06 pm
my ex and i may be getting back. but first he wants me to prove to him i can be loyal. the only reason he worries is because he used to cheat and worries i want to get back. plus we broke up cuz i had feelings for someone else. we still love eachother, but he doesn't want to get back together because he is worried i won't be loyal. how can i prove to him he is the only one for me, and not have to wait forever. also, my bf may be going to jail for awhile, and it will be hard to prove it.
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Mixed Signals.
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 4:27 pm
I'm 15/f, he's 15/m.
So I like this guy in my grade. Last year I also liked him, and he ended up asking me out. However, I turned him down because I no longer liked him. Yes, complicated. I know.
But this year, I like him again. He recently got over a girl that he never even dated. But he's been sending me mixed signals. He stares at me in school, but never says hi, almost as if he's too shy or something. But he waved to me from his homecoming car ( he was king ). We talk on AIM sometimes, and things go well, and then he signs off randomly and just says he's leaving. I already subtly told him I like him, he didn't say anything. I just DON'T KNOW what to do. He was supposed to dance with me at homecoming also, w...
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ugh
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 4:15 pm
well recently this guy asked me out [in front of a bunch of people from school.] i said yes cuz i didn't want to hurt his feelings again... [ he asked me out on friday but i said no.. :/]
and now i really regret saying yes because i REALLY like this other guy who goes to a different school. And i don't wanna hurt him but i'm not sure what to do. i want to be friends with him really bad but right now i just want to be with one person...
help. please.
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landing the girl
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 4:11 pm
i like a girl, and i think she likes me but i don't know exactly how to land it and start dating
help!
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Stress.
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 4:01 pm
Okay, well....I started going out with this guy named Dustin last Friday. Just today, I decided I didn't like him. And I felt like a jerk, because I like a bunch of other guys (im a flirt lol). So I decided to break up with him. I didn't think it was fair to me that I was going out with someone I didn't like, and I didn't think it was fair to him that I liked other guys. So I dumped him. So I like this other really hott kid named Derik. I told some people, because I figure he'll go out with me. Well, Dustin is convinced I'm going to go back out with him. But he's going to hear that I like Derik. I honestly don't know what to do. :(
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Prototype
Posted Monday October 1 2007, 11:38 am
Hey I am trying to become the ultimate player, boyfriend, whatever you wanna call it. I could use some advice and please spare no details. The more info you give the better. Try to cover all the bases like clothes, personality, and anything else you can think of. Thanks.
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