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homecomeing date?
14/f/freshman
i really like this boy, let's call him E. he's a sophmore.. his older brother is best friends with my older brother, so i see him alot. but i'm kindof shy when it comes to boys, so i dont' talk to him. however, we talk all the time on AIM. i usually see him at school, but i never have the courage to talk to him..
now there's another boy, N. i used to like him, but i don't have those feelings for him anymore. he's three years older than me, a junior. but i've known him since i was 7, because he went to my church. he asked me to go to homecoming with him, and i said idk because i was thinking about askeing E. but he said he didn't want to wait forever, that he had other girls he was gonna ask. so i said yes.
however, i really really like E. what do i do? i know i should follow through with my promise to go with N, but i don't want to feel jealous if i see E with a different date.. i'm so confused, please help :/
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if I were you i'd casually ask E, without telling N about it. Then, if he says yes, you can tell N that you can't go with him anymore, and if he says no, then you can still go with E.
That plan should work either way.
i hope i helped.
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well. N seems to be somewhat rude about it since he said he wasnt going to wait forever..which is understandable..but saying he has other girls to ask isnt very nice to say..in that terms at least. try mentioning homecoming to E and see what he says, and obviously as N said he already had other girls he could ask. YOu could also talk it over with N.
hope this helped =]
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