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Prototype Hey I am trying to become the ultimate player, boyfriend, whatever you wanna call it. I could use some advice and please spare no details. The more info you give the better. Try to cover all the bases like clothes, personality, and anything else you can think of. Thanks.
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Someone who doesn't care what other people think. In other words, I think you're as far away from being the "ultimate" as it's possible to be. ]
Who do you admire? Look to those in your life and beyond, who have the characteristics you want to exhibit in your own personality. You won't need to copycat or imitate, just be inspired! We all need people we respect to look to for encouragement and perspective. Don't limit yourself to just men, either. There are some extremely cool women out there that personify class, attitude and get what they want on their own. Be open to learning always and observe what works and what does not in different situations. The easiest and hardest thing to do is to become a good listener. Always look someone you are interested in right in the eyes. Forget talking about yourself and trying to impress. What will make you irresistable to anyone will be your listening skills and genuine interest in learning about what makes the person you are engaging in conversation special. Everyone wants to be discovered and appreciated for the individual they are...don't rush, and you will always go farther in life. ]
yeah i'm not sure why you'd want to become a player either. girls don't like cheaters. why don't you try being yourself? ]
im not sure why you would want to become a player, because fye, girls hate that. all girls have different types no matter what 'group' they're in. a preppy chick, a goth girl, and a nerdy girl could all end up liking the same guy. ]
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