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Bad Guy? Lots of attraction
One of my best friends introduced me to her high school-ex boyfriend about 2 months ago. When I wasn't around, he kept making comments about how gorgeous I was. Well, she told me when we left his house that she'd like to see me and him get together (I set her up with her current boyfriend) and that he seemed to have really changed. Well, we started hanging out a couple of times and we got drunk and ended up making out and talking for hours on end. We never had sex. We can sit on complete opposite sides of the room and talk for 4-5 hours without ever touching each other. Our conversation alone is better than sex. Well, my friend starts telling me that he hasn't changed and that I needed to leave him alone and she tells him to leave me alone. So, to make her happy - I tell him I don't want to talk to him anymore. The truth is, I lied. I miss him a lot. He may be a player and he may be a bad guy, but I honestly enjoy his company. I don't know how to make this right. Can someone give me some advice?
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she said you had to stop talking dosnt mean that you have to stop seeing each other... JK just follow your heart if you really like the guy you should stay with him.
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if i were in your place i would get that guy back! your friend is the one who introduced you, its not fair for her to force you apart because she got jealous. shes the one who said its ok to hookup with him..and now you guys have feelings for each other so definitely go for it! besides..she has a current bf anyway
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okay first off if she was a good friend she wouldnt have made you guys stop talkign, i undertsand she was lookign out for you but if she knew you were happy wiht him she shoudl respect that. Second off i think she is just jealous. He wasnt liek this when they dated and she envies this relationship you have with him.
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He doesn't seem like a bad guy and he hasn't done anything to hurt your feelings. It's not fair that she would tell both of you to stop talking to each other. You both enjoy each others company and you don't know for sure that he hasn't changed and that he's a bad guy. You need to talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about it. Continue talking to him because you might be that girl that makes him change for good.
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