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Oh lord another boy problem. Please help?
WEll this guy liked me last year, and then we broke up because he didn't have time to have a girlfriend (his words) and then we started hooking up a lot right before summer and then when summer came he was like i don't want a girlfriend but I still want to hang out with you and I was SO angry because I don't just hook up with guys for nothing. Only when I like them. so i didn't talk to him during the summer. When school came he asked me why and I was like because i don't want to be the girl you just hook up with. and he's like ohh i guess you're right.. but I still like him and I don't know what to do because I really don't like him sometimes and I know that if we go out it will end up bad like the last time but I Like him!! I don't know what to DOOOOO!
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Well he really doesn't like you from what you said...he is just wants friends with benifits and he doesn't want commitment so if i were you i would just move on and be like whatever!
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Let him know you like him. If he likes you back, he will ask you out. But don't pressure him or corner him and stuff, or he might go out with you out of pity (unfortunately, that just happened to me, and it feels awful.) Just let him know. Then let him do the rest.
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Hi.
I think the thing you need to ask yourself here is what's best for YOU. I know you like the guy but in liking him is it worth it in the long term, when you know it'll just end up badly anyway?
I'm not sure exactly what you refer to when you say hook up but (hook up over here where I am simply just means hanging out together and that's it but I get the impression when you say it, it means a lot more than just hanging out together and stuff. If this is the case then I would say to do what you already know is the smartest thing to do and forget him. If he's not willing to go at it on a full relationship already then he probably never will, more so because he's getting everything he needs already from you minus the complications of a full out relationship. And you've already made it clear that kind of thing is not what you go for.
To be honest I think you should just forget about this guy and move on. I'm not saying forget about how you feel about him because that can only happen with time. But it's unfair on yourself to wait around on a guy that seems to just be using you when he deems it convenient for him. Trust me on this, you WILL find someone better even if you have your doubts at the moment about that. :]
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well i obviously think he doesn't deserve you. sorry hunn but its the truth. he sounds like a pretty desperate player or something, i understand that you like him a lot but if he's the type of guy who wants to just hookup with you, thats just not cool but also pathetic. you know you can do better then him, i'm sure you'll definitely find a better guy then him. hope i helped. :]
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