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Mixed Signals.


Question Posted Monday October 1 2007, 4:27 pm

I'm 15/f, he's 15/m.

So I like this guy in my grade. Last year I also liked him, and he ended up asking me out. However, I turned him down because I no longer liked him. Yes, complicated. I know.

But this year, I like him again. He recently got over a girl that he never even dated. But he's been sending me mixed signals. He stares at me in school, but never says hi, almost as if he's too shy or something. But he waved to me from his homecoming car ( he was king ). We talk on AIM sometimes, and things go well, and then he signs off randomly and just says he's leaving. I already subtly told him I like him, he didn't say anything. I just DON'T KNOW what to do. He was supposed to dance with me at homecoming also, we discussed it, but he never approached me. We danced together last year. =(

I just don't get it.
Should I just give up and move on,
Or wait and stay strong?

Sincerely,
Crushed.


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scootermclisle answered Tuesday October 2 2007, 12:00 pm:
Waiting is obviously a bad idea, because you've been waiting and nothing's happened. However, letting go is also not the best idea because then you'll be wondering what might have happened. It's always better to be direct rather than subtle in these situations. Approach him and flat out tell him how you feel.

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Tootsie answered Monday October 1 2007, 8:35 pm:
hes sending mixed signals to see how you respond. He doesn't know if you actually like him or are going to blow him off because you couldn't make up your mind last year.

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