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confused


Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 4:01 pm

how do you tell if a guy likes you? because i heard this guy likes me but im getting mixed signals from him. for example, he'll sit in class staring at me and smiling but then he might not say hi in the hallway. or vice versa. what do you guys think?

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What Should I Do?


Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 1:13 pm

Okay, Here's The deal. I Am 15, female and I Am dating A guy who is 16. We go to the same school and he will be leaving in about 4 or so months. We have been together 6 months and still hardly any of my mates like him. Him And I always get abuse from them when we're togther, like they pick on him and stuff or make comments. And even when i'm alone and away from him my mates say things about him that upset me. I now dread lunch and break times in school because he comes to see me and my mates go all funny and block me out. I hate it. I would go with him to his mates but i don't really get on with them and i get shy around them.. I keep thinking about moving schools.. but it would be bad cos i have exams.. then there was dumping him but i d...

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love might come to an end


Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 12:39 pm

My boyfreind and i have known each other for a while now, but we havent been dating that long. i really like him, but we are both on the school wrestling team and dating is not allowed. But i dont want to break up with him because im way too attatched to him . he feels the same way. but we could get in seriose trouble if we get caught. what do i do??

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Asking a girl out


Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 6:48 am

I have a friend who knows i like her more than a friend. She has a boyfriend, she tells me almost EVERYTHING!

Today she told me she's going to break up with her boyfriend. He only has one more chance which is a day to make it up to her.

If they do brake up, what's a good way to ask the girl out??

Thanks so much for all suggestions and advice!

And if it wouldn't be a problem, what's a good activity for a FIRST date?

Thanks in advance.

Kronix

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Boyfriend & Sex


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 11:17 pm

I'm 16/f
I've only ever had two boyfriends, one for almost 5 months, and the one I'm dating now for 1.
Well, we've only been dating for one, but we've been best friends for a year. And we both knew we liked each other while we weren't dating.
Well I've never dated a virgin, including my boyfriend now, and he always teases me about how he's ready for some with me.
And I mean, I don't know if I have a problem with it. I mean, I love him, I've known him for a year.
I am afraid though, of what could happen. You know? I have a lot going for me and don't want to get pregnant. I've also only been to second base before, so the nether regions are a new thing.
I know we should work up to that, and I was fully...

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Hey im single and im having trouble with guy's. (Guy's answe


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 10:31 pm

Hey everyone i am a 14 year old girl and i love to be in relationships!! But the problem is i dont have a boyfriend. but guys flirt with me just wont ask me out i think that mabey i might be attractive. Here's what i look like.
I have darkish brown hair.
I have green eye's.
I am 5"6.
I am a prep-ish/ punk girl.
And i feel really alone right now. Any tip's and if any guys read this please comment me.
Thanks a billion!!

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CAN I MAKE IT WORK WITH HIM


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 10:25 pm

i recently started liking this guy alot, he is perfect for me and my friends totally agree. my friend who is close with him told him i like d him and his response was cool. she said that he told her i wasnt out of the picture he just did not like like me yet. i mean tho i tried like playing with his hair today and he was like not totally flirting back he just talked back i dont know what to do i want him to like me so much,, he is really touchy with people im afraid if i am touchy with him he will get turned off because he knows i like him... i want him to like me so much,, he is so sweet, cudly, and perfect for me please give me tips on how to flirt with him

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dating other races


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 9:56 pm

like im a black girl but i tend to like a lot of white people too.. usually guys with longish brown hair and blue eyes. is that weird? like i dunno.. I like black guys too but a lot of them are dicks, especially here in america. people say its okay to like.. like or date people of different colors.. but idk.. like what my parents would think of that since i've never talked to them about it.. and theres never been like biracial people in our family since they were born in africa and all their relatives lived there as well. we're the new generation that gets to live in the u.s. um.. so any thoughts? its not really a question or maybe it is but im kinda unsure.. like cause im not limited to only liking black guys and i like other guys too, esp...

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okay a bit long but I need help , it's quite interesting lol


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 9:53 pm

this guy Cameron is one of my friends and I thought he liked me because 1 .the talked to me more than all the other girls and 2.my school went to a hockey game and I was looking for a place to sit and he saw me looking around and he was like waving at me
okay then I was sitting a seat away from him and he came and sat next to me
so I was talking to my friend Nichelle on the other side of me and I was like I'm gonna "fall asleep" and "accidently" have my head fall on him shoulder ... and I told her to look at him when I was " asleep" and see his reaction ...
so he was smiling
then later I was like buuuur I'm freeeeezing and he gave me his coat ...
then when we were walking home...

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omg confused


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 9:26 pm

14/f the guy is 16/m.

ok theres this guy who i liked last year & he liked me too. i told him, but he never responded either way.
well i still have a crush on him and i really want to talk to him on MSN because i feel like i really missed something that might have been special..like my first kiss! but i feel like if i pursue him ill be percieved as "clingy". and i feel like i might start something that i wont be able to finish. but i still have feelings for him.

so should i pursue my feelings or just let them die and wonder what couldve happened?

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is it bad..?


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 9:14 pm

is it bad to go out with someone else if you like the other guy better? this guy A asked me out and i was kind of pressured so i said yes to him even though i like this guy B better i like guy A but then i like guy B more but i said yes to the guy A when he asked me out and i made the relationship secret because of my parents but on the other hand so guy B wont know that im going out with guy A . guy A asked me if he could flirt with other girls and i said "yes you could" and i asked him if i could and he said yes too i let him flirt with other girls because i wanted to flirt with guy B is this all bad...?

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" impossible"???


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 8:46 pm

i met this guy in italy, and i think im falling in love with him. im 13 now, and hes 17, and he said that he likes me and that he wants to have kids with me and wants to marry me and stay with me....but today, i got on the subject of us meeting...and he said that it was almost impossible....so....he loves me, but its " impossible for us to meet"???? i mean, what the hell?! is this just some kind of guy thing that i dont understand or what? because he says that it is impossible, and that it wouldnt be easy. i mean....how hard can it be? all one of us has to do is just buy a plane ticket, and fly over....i dont understand. i really love him alot. and he says he does with me too. but...maybe he dosent...because hes always talking abo...

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hate this.


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 8:27 pm

Whenever I talk to the guy I like I like get so nervous. My hands like shake & everything. I feel SOOOO self conscious when I talk to him. Im like terrified that my hair looks messed up & stupid things like that. Is there any way to relax more?

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crush


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 7:43 pm

okay so i have had a crush on this really hot guy for like a month or so. we are friends and we text all the time and he is really nice and he would tell me how nice and pretty i was and stuff. he had a girlfriend, and they recentley broke up. we haven't been talking much lately, just on the bus and some in the hallway, but we have like stopped texting. he told me over text like 2 weeks ago that he liked me, and i told him i liked him, but that was when he still had a girlfriend. my other friends who are friends with him asked him recently who he liked and he said alot of people, but that the only one he thinks he has a chance with is samantha, another girl in my grade!!! i am so confused about everything! then today my other friend, meliss...

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making the connection


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 7:34 pm

how do you really get to know a guy that you're interested in? what topics can you talk about so that after some time you really feel like you know them and they know you?

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Some thing about tiffany


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 6:55 pm


I feel like I am in that movie Something about Mary, Honestly every one that I know even my self have a crush on Tiffany. I just don’t get it, Jon had a crush on her and me, they went out together for 3 days but Tiff broke it off because he was moving to fast. And then there was my ex boyfriend Anthony who I broke up with him because he was too annoying to deal with. He told me he has a crush on me and tiffany. And then I myself have a crush on her too. We all told her how e felt about her but she let us all down. Jon likes me and Tiff, Anthony likes me and tiff and I like Tiff and Tiffany like???? None of us…oh god I so need to meet knew people!

The thing is we are all great friends too. ..


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My boyfriend telling his xgf shes hot


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 6:21 pm

so im 20 my bf is 23 weve been together about 6 mos.. anyways i noticed that he left his xgf a picture comment on facebook saying ohh (name) lookin hot... they dated for like 4 mos. she was in love with him but he didnt feel the same way which is why he broke up with her. he always tells me he didnt really find her that attractive they just really got along and whatever. I know he isnt going to cheat on me. I cant bring it up to him because I only could see the comment while on his facebook because Im not friends with his xgf... I just dont think its right to leave comments on an exes page like that when you are in a relationship. I know if i tell him that just randomly he'll tell me he doesn't do that and etc. My question is if other peopl...

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Posted Monday November 19 2007, 5:59 pm

So.
I sit next to Adam in reading, forced to but if we had the choice I probably still would. Well for the past week of sitting together, we've flirted. I wasn't sure at first, but the nudges.. pinches.. Footsies!.. and just what were talking about. Becky even called it flirting. Then PJ Stamas, the most rudest ignorant JERK ever asked "Are you going out with Katie???" Looking directly at Adam, because im not the best thing to look at.. and Adam didn't say anything so then Pj looked at me and asked if we were and I said No were not because were not. So Pj said oo and looked away. And me and Adam went back to flirting.. =D Wellthat was Thursday. Friday at lunch because I sit next to Adam because we are friends.. some random...

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My current Relationship...


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 4:36 pm

ok, so i\'m 16/f. i have a boyfriend who\'s 18 and we\'ve been dating for almost two months. we both love eachother. i don\'t know if we\'re getting too intimate b/c we made out the first week we started dating, he gave me a hickie our one month, and now he\'s been grabbing my boob, but i would grab his hand and just hold it.b/c idk if i like it or not haha... but last night, we were at his friend\'s house who were out of town and we were making out, then somehow he was laying on top of me (all clothes were on) and don\'t get me wrong, i enjoyed it... but i don\'t know if we\'re going too fast because i really don\'t want to loose my virginity to him b/c he\'s graduating this may and going to miami for college but i do love him and i just d...

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Confusion and uncertainty.


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 4:06 pm

well i just got over the worst relationship OF MY LIFE. i went with this guy that i'll call Kevin for 2 and a half months and then he decides he wants to break it off because we never get to see eachother. although i get the vibe that that's not the only reason. so the night of my birthday he called me but i never called him back and he got pissed. so he sends me all this hatemail and stuff and tells me off, (even though he knows DAMN WELL that he upset me more than anyone else in the world!! and he wasnt my bf, so why does he care if i dont call him back or not, right? and there were plenty of times when we were dating that he never called me when he told me he would.) and just today he sent me these texts on my phone calling me names and ...

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