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crush
okay so i have had a crush on this really hot guy for like a month or so. we are friends and we text all the time and he is really nice and he would tell me how nice and pretty i was and stuff. he had a girlfriend, and they recentley broke up. we haven't been talking much lately, just on the bus and some in the hallway, but we have like stopped texting. he told me over text like 2 weeks ago that he liked me, and i told him i liked him, but that was when he still had a girlfriend. my other friends who are friends with him asked him recently who he liked and he said alot of people, but that the only one he thinks he has a chance with is samantha, another girl in my grade!!! i am so confused about everything! then today my other friend, melissa was talking to him. me and him and melissa all ride the same bus. here's how the convo went:
Melissa- Hey billy!
billy- hey melissa, why dont you ever ride the bus anymore?
melissa- oh i have basketball.
billy- oh okay. well ive been having to sit next to anna (thats me), and we talk like the whole time and stuff but it's really awkward.
melissa- why?!
then melissa's boyfriend came up and told billy to go away right when he was about to talk! idk what to think anymore! i am really confused, and if you have any insight on this AT ALL, please tell me. i dont no what to do or think or anything. give me ideas on what to text him if you can. please, anything will help!
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well, hes admittled to liking you but he thinks he only has a chance with samantha. soooo... tell someone to slip it to him that he DOES infact has a chance with YOU. tell mellisa, whenever she sees him, only if shes got a second, to say, "hey, i heard you only think you have a chance with samantha. well, you have a chance with anna too, because she really likes you." melissa, i would say, is the ideal person to do this, and i guess her boyfriend has issues, but all she needs is 30 seconds to say this to him, then walk away without waiting for the response. this will give him the info in a way that allows him to think about it, not immdeiatly have to answer. (putting somone on the spot only makes them give you the wrong answer.) then, see him a couple more times, and on maybe the 3rd time say: "so, melissa told me that she told you we have a chance together? well, shes telling the truth, i really like you and you totally have a chance with me."
its a pretty far-out plan, but i think it just might work.
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so what from what you said, he thought is was awekward to sit next to and talk to you. right? well thats probably because both of you told each other that you both like each other. And, now that he is no longer dating anyone, he is probably thinking that maybe you don't feel that way anymore. Try to talk to him, and flirt with him more. He will most likely get the vibe, and if he still likes you, flirt back. hope i helped. don't forget to rate!
-alex :]
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