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is it bad..?
is it bad to go out with someone else if you like the other guy better? this guy A asked me out and i was kind of pressured so i said yes to him even though i like this guy B better i like guy A but then i like guy B more but i said yes to the guy A when he asked me out and i made the relationship secret because of my parents but on the other hand so guy B wont know that im going out with guy A . guy A asked me if he could flirt with other girls and i said "yes you could" and i asked him if i could and he said yes too i let him flirt with other girls because i wanted to flirt with guy B is this all bad...?
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well yea it is kind of bad because you bothe seem like your in a relationship just to be in a relationship and not that you really like eachother so if you dont see a future with him dont waste your time and instead go for the guy you really have feelings for
"never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love"
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Well, in a way yeah but you tried to slove it.
ok ok go with guy B because you can tell that you like him more than guy a ! if you do that then It won't be all bad and u would be happy as well with guy B!!!! Please Always ask RjRamos for any question!
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Yes, it's bad.
You like someone else more than him AND you felt pressured into saying yes. Don't need anymore evidence to see you don't really want to be in the relationship.
Also, what on Earth is the point in having a relationship then asking to flirt with other people. How pointless.
Break up with him for your own sake.
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Tell the first person that the relationship isn't working for you. Let him know you really like him as a close friend. Tell him that you never wanted to hurt him but you're having feelings for him and someone else.
Tell him that because you don't want both of you to become badly hurt that you need out of the relationship. As far as guy B goes don't do anything yet.
Wait a while and see what your heart tells you. Trust it above all else. If a situation, relationship, person seems wrong for you it IS.
It's only bad if you let this continue to wage on as it has been. I don't care how angry your parents might get over you dating someone but tell them the truth.
They deserve that respect and they'll give you respect and him respect once they see you are doing all the right things. They want you safe and with someone who isn't a bad influence. When they see that he's a gentleman they'll lay off.
For now though take some time for yourself and figure out who you want to be with and the reasons why then act on it. Right now it seems as though you don't know what you really want and need.
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