ok theres this guy who i liked last year & he liked me too. i told him, but he never responded either way.
well i still have a crush on him and i really want to talk to him on MSN because i feel like i really missed something that might have been special..like my first kiss! but i feel like if i pursue him ill be percieved as "clingy". and i feel like i might start something that i wont be able to finish. but i still have feelings for him.
so should i pursue my feelings or just let them die and wonder what couldve happened?
Additional info, added Tuesday November 20 2007, 10:36 pm: let me emphasize that the thing im scared about most in talking to him is starting something i might not be able to finish (like i talk to him and he still likes me but i dont like him anymore and that makes me look like a bitch lol), but i want him so badly that i cant help myself. ]:. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? amberrrxo answered Tuesday November 20 2007, 11:24 pm: you will not be clingy if you talk to him after you havent in awhile if he liked you, you should start talking to him to see if anything happens bc you dont wanna spend your life wondering what couldve happened just go for it & if it doesnt turn out good theres always abunch of other guys & dont be scared you wont like him anymore bc if you really do it wont happen& if you end up not liking him let him know you just wanna be friends i hope i helped :) [ amberrrxo's advice column | Ask amberrrxo A Question ]
thelaura answered Tuesday November 20 2007, 10:42 pm: Why give yourself a headache and wonder what could have been? I always say to pursue things - at least then you will know, even if the outcome isn't what you wanted.
You won't come across as clingy if you just talk to him in a casual, friendly manner every now and then. Simply say hi when he's online, ask what he's been doing etc. Then see if anything builds from it.
Good luck. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
dOMiNiChUlA answered Tuesday November 20 2007, 10:38 pm: just pursue your feelings if you dont try u'll always have that "damn i wonder what would have happened if..." in the back of your mind. He probably still likes you is just afraid you moved on. [ dOMiNiChUlA's advice column | Ask dOMiNiChUlA A Question ]
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