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My boyfriend telling his xgf shes hot
so im 20 my bf is 23 weve been together about 6 mos.. anyways i noticed that he left his xgf a picture comment on facebook saying ohh (name) lookin hot... they dated for like 4 mos. she was in love with him but he didnt feel the same way which is why he broke up with her. he always tells me he didnt really find her that attractive they just really got along and whatever. I know he isnt going to cheat on me. I cant bring it up to him because I only could see the comment while on his facebook because Im not friends with his xgf... I just dont think its right to leave comments on an exes page like that when you are in a relationship. I know if i tell him that just randomly he'll tell me he doesn't do that and etc. My question is if other people think its wrong too? and if I should just casually bring up the thing of telling his xgfs or any girls theyre hot or etc..?
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It means nothing more than what it is...a comment. If you choose to make more of it, it will become more. If you accept that everyone has a past, ex-lovers, passing attractions and other human traits that are pretty mundane, then you can spend more time enjoying the real relationship you have with your man.
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well, i know how you feel trust me, but i would let this one slide. it could be a lot worse, at least he isnt saying this to every girl out there. you are confident he wont cheat on you, so i would let it go. if he starts getting weird, leaves her more comments, or seems like hes not interesting in you, then i would bring this up as an issue.
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It doesn't necessarily mean anything, but still, it's not nice and I doubt anyone would like it either if it happened to them.
He probably didn't set out to hurt you and obviously didn't expect you to see it.
You can ask him if you like, or try not to make it obvious so it doesn't get him annoyed about you being on his facebook (if he doesn't already know you go on it).
Ask him what he would think if you commented another guy saying he's hot etc. Then you can ask him about his ex girlfriends comment if necessary.
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wow, the same thing happened to me. me and him went out for 6 monthd but it was on myspace. so i talked to him about it. and like a week later i was just so mad that i dumped him. and guess what... he ended up liking her. but his ex girlfriend and me are friendds and she didn't wanna go out with him. so uh yeah.
so if i were you, i would just talk about it with him. and if he says he's only joking around or something.. do the same thing. comment one of your ex boyfriends pictures saying hott or something and make sure he sees it. see how he feels when it happens to him :D
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Hi, my name is Em231 and I think I can help you
you are so right i don't think it's right to leave
comments like that when your in a relationship!!
You should bring it up calmly and look him straight
in his eyes and say this ( If you want to
or if you can think of something your selve).
" I saw what you commented on your ex girlfriend
and I think that is inipropreate to say those
things when your in a relation ship"!!! I hope
things go ok.
Em231
P.S.
if you need one on one advice email me at ethom@Wildblue.net
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