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Super Detailed Kissing Advice
Posted Wednesday November 21 2007, 12:37 pm
SoOoOOO Im female, 15 years old.
And my boyfriend kissed me for the very first time. lol. and i was totally asking for it but once we started i felt like i was doing EVERYTHING wrong. EVERYTHING wrong. and part of it is, the only guy ive ever kissed...well i was drunk at he was 20y/o and the whole time me and my boyfriend were kissing, all i could think of was that guy taking advantage of me. it felt like i didnt know what to do with my lips and toungue really. like he was goin for toungue but it felt akward. and i know hes been with plenty of girls before, and i havent been with many guys...
so i need some UBER SUPER AWESOME kissing advice. and please dont send me links unless theyre REALLY good. like i need A...
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My boyfriends older then me, and i think he wants more(its n
Posted Wednesday November 21 2007, 10:55 am
Im a 13 yr old girl, and my boyrfriend is 15 and turning 16 soon. we really like each other and we connect so well. and ive already talked to him about respecting what im comfortable doing and stuff. but i feel like he is just waiting. and some of my friends who are friends with him said he isnt a virgin. and that kinda bothers me. but he is so sweet and honestly i love him. but i feel kinda bad that he wants to finger me and stuff but i wont let him. and because he is older then me he has done alot more stuff that i havnt, which makes me feel really in-expierienced. and i worry that if i do something im doing it wrong. he hasnt said anything about wanting me to do more with him but i think im getting some hints. like he is always going up...
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Posted Wednesday November 21 2007, 10:50 am
what can i do to a guy to give him pleasue without us getting undressed?
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how do i get a boyfriend when i havent met anyone who is lik
Posted Wednesday November 21 2007, 3:16 am
im bi and i want a boyfriend! but no one knows it and the people who are gay at my school im not attracted to at all! im not into femine guys im mre into guys who are stright but arent because thats how iam and i feel that i wouldnt be able to relate with someone diffrent! and i really wnat someone????
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will they make an acception? a question for the guys
Posted Wednesday November 21 2007, 12:52 am
17/f he's 18/f
i really like this guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me. he's hinted it but hasn't come right out and said it but a while ago he promised himself that he's not going to have any relationships for a while because they've caused him a lot of grief and stress. so i'm asking you guys, if you like someone but don't want a relationship even though you know that you and this person would be good together, is there any chance that you would make an acception??
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sooo fusrtating!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Wednesday November 21 2007, 12:34 am
omg!!!!!im so fustrated and its with myself! ive been dating this guy for a little over a month and he wants to go to the next level and kiss me.i truelly want to as well very badly but i just cant!im just so nervous and shy about it and i can never bring myself to do it and its so fustrating!ive kissed only one boy and when i did it i wasnt really scared but i did go out with that boy for like 7months b-4 i did it. i still dont understand why im so nervous to do it again!i told him that he would deffinately have to make the first move and he has tried but i think he wants me to make a little bit of an effort and like meet him half way but i just cant!!he tried twice and i was just to danm shy!!!i talked to a friend who has tried to help an...
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my boyfriend and I have been fighting alot lately
Posted Wednesday November 21 2007, 12:05 am
So my boyfriend and I have been fighting alot lately and it seems like we will be doing fine and then one night he'll say hes going out to the bars with his friends and ill suddenly feel upset. He doesn't understand that that bothers me but it does. I'm 19 and he is 23 and I hate that he can get into the bars and i cant. I dont understand why his friends cant have a party at their place that way i wont be left out :/ Am I overreacting? Is it silly that that bothers me? Because anytime I sound upset that hes going he'll say things like "so are you made that I want to go out with my friends? i havent been out with them in a month" and then Ill be like "well i dont care" when I really do! and "do what you want"
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boy troubles...
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 11:02 pm
alright, so i used to reeeally like this guy and we went to homecoming together. i kind of left it at that because i didn't think i had a chance. but then i found out that he used to like me too. so immediately i want him to like me again haha.
so he came over tonight and (unfortunately) my other friend was there too and she was all over him (i'm not concerned with her, though. believe me, i don't need to be) so i was like whatever because i know they're just friends. so when she left i told him how i thought he was reealllllyyy attractive and i was bummed we didn't get to have a 'snuggle party'. Do you think I was too forward? like i was trying to be all cuddly and stuff
so he was like "okay next week we...
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my boyfriend of 9 months is different.
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 10:56 pm
My boyfriend of 9 months i think has changed. I dont know if it's b/c we had sex 2 months ago or b/c of football but heu sed to treat me soooo good. we used to be the best couples out there. then things started getting rough. He got caguht for chewing and he swore on our relatioship and PROMISED me he wouldnt ever do it again and he did. So he got grounded for 2 weeks and the next day i flirted with someone he hates b/c hes the most popluar guy in the school and i was mad at my boyfriend. but the next day people told him i cheated on him which i didnt i made a point not to b/c i love my boyfriend but it took him a while but he trusted me. Now im asking him what makes me trust him now that he isnt going to lie to me when he chews again and ...
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Long Distance. Enough said.
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 9:31 pm
Ok I know long distance relationships never work, but maybe they can?
Should i even get my hopes up? Ok let me tell you the story.
I met him in the summer of 2005 and he fell instantly in "love" with me and we kissed but that was pretty much it. He lives in Connecticut and i live in Florida. We talked a bit after that but not really much. But recently i have gotten back in touch with him, but all he wants to talk about is having sex with me. I am going up there in december so i don't know whether i should or shouldn't do anythign with him...... one he has a g/f but he says he doesn't really love her, he loves me and blah blah blah but he refuses to break up with her. two i really don't want to be this slut and have s...
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jock--artist. would it have been weird?
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 9:27 pm
Im trying to get over this guy I liked, and my friends are trying to convince me it wouldn't have worked out anyways. hes a jock, he probalby only talkes about football and boobs. I talk about the wonderfull music were playing in band, (were in the same band class, same instrument) and how beautiful nature is, and how i love to express myself though dance yadda yadda...
are my friends right? would it have worked?
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did he assualt me ?
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 7:57 pm
ok im 17 my boyfriend is almost 18. weve been together a year and 4 months and weve never had sex. he has a high sexual drive i guess, but were waiting.. well mainly me, and hes always respected that.. we are both virgins. theres been times when weve been at his house and ill fall asleep with him watchin tv or something, and he'll grind up against me. im a very deep sleeper so im sure hes not that worried about waking me up. i usually lay on my stomach because thats how i sleep, and he'll 'position' himself so itll feel good to him i guess. sometimes id really be awake and he wouldnt know it, other times he'd wake me up doing that. tonight, he started to do that again. after a little bit, he proceeded to get up, put lotion on my hand and wo...
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How do i get a guy to notice me?
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 7:40 pm
How do I get a guy I like to notice me? Without having to pretend I like someone else?
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scared because of who i like
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 7:37 pm
here's the thing,
i realized i was bi a while ago but i still can't get up the guts to tell anyone. my ex boyfriend knows but thats about it.... i'm scared i will loose friends and be looked down on by family...i do have one trusting friend though.
should i come out???
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help!
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 7:31 pm
i have liked my best guy friend forever. the problem is, i don't know if he likes me back or not. but it's not a little crush, i like him so much! i cry myself to sleep all the time from being upset about him possibly not liking me. what do i do?
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What should i do??
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 7:29 pm
so i use to go out with this guy...he was like my best friend for like 2 years anyways he broke up with me after like 2 weeks cuz he "didnt kno wat to do withhis feelings" after that our friendship hasnt been the same....Theres this other guy who ive liked for 41\2 years and now we are really gettin serious and wanna get together....now my ex decided that he made a mistake and wants me back......I told him that i will always care for him since hes my friend....but i told him i really love this other guy......I think i broke his heart...What should i do?and do i act bitchy towards him....(the ex)
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Turn him ON
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 7:03 pm
How can i turn a guy on? i know that apperently girl and girl turns on a guy but im straight and only 14. my best friends and i hug and put our arms around each other and stuff but...i want to know how to turn a guy on. Like things i can do or touch him innocently but really turns him on. sumthing i can do in public or at least in front of our friends. Thanks SO MUCH or say too i could say sumthing. i already know he likes me a lot so is just seeing me kinda a way of turning him on and i really want to drive him cazy in a good way and turn him ON! ;)
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I don't know what I'm feeling.
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 6:30 pm
I don't know what's going on with my feelings. So let me start with guy number one (I'm 13/f by the way)
Well we've always sort of had this thing
In 5th grade he asked me out and he liked me like crazy and I didn't know what to say because I was unsure I was just in 5th grade. In 6th grade he barely talked to me.
In 7th he sometimes talked to me and if it was, it was probably just flirting. Now this year in 8th, he does the same thing. He talks to me more though and I guess you could say we're friends. But I've always felt something for him. He has the most amazing brown eyes and when our eyes meet I feel like we both know there's something there, but we look away as if it shouldn't be there. I don't know if I like him ...
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Break??
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 5:30 pm
I have a problem. So yesturday to take a break with my boyfriend of a lil over 7 months. My reason was that I need to have time to myself and figure stuff out. My boyfriend wasn't too bad with that said. He couldn't understand where this came from and what he did wrong. Alot of little things got to me recently and I became annoyed with everything. We don't go out much so we are usually at my house doing nothing because he's broke and what not. I mean yeah, he has a job, but that's toward his car and gas. So he doesn't get to spend much and I don't expect him, but my mom is getting irritated and irritated as months pass. He comes here and eats and stuff and my mom gets mad that he doesn't take me out. She is more irritated now then before be...
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using tamps&gettingg "popped"
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 4:02 pm
um aright i was just wondering, when you get ur cherryy popped, how long does it bleed for. i mean i know theres a "liner" thats broken when it gets popped. but when you get it popped, does it start bleeding right away? and u can pop it by getting fingered right?
anndd onee more thingg. i have a hard time using tampons. i just doesnt go up, if you know what i mean? i was just looking for some one to give me some direction on thatt.
thanks soo much<3
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