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getting the ex out of here


Posted Wednesday December 12 2007, 1:59 am

so i have a couple problems... one...i want to be with my bf forever. we usually get along and have been together 2 years... and i love him i'm pretty sure he loves me but of course you never know for sure. how do i get myself to feel comfortable with our relatioship... the second problem is when me and my bf took a break for a lil while i kinda dated a guy and he "fell" in love haha ok but he is crazy he won't leave me alone and has almost ended my relationship with my bf by lying. and i don't know how to get him to leave me alone please help

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Ok so I like this guy he sometimes stares at me


Posted Wednesday December 12 2007, 12:06 am

Ok so I like this guy he sometimes stars at me and when he stares i looks and stare back i am way to shy to ask him out wat 2 do HELP!!!!!!!!!

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espin the bottle


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 10:32 pm

im 16/f. i've been really lonely, and single, for a long time now, and since i'm too shy too go up to guys, i've decided to finally take action, while taking another approach. i recently created an account on espinthebottle.com, but i've been debating on wether or not i should post pictures. since my teachers are young and most of them go on dating sites, i'm scared that they, or anyone else that lives nearby who might know me, will by some chance come across me. i'd be humiliated. will anyone else who has an account, or any expertise at all on the site give me some advice [i have other questions about it]. thanXx in advance.

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affectn my relationship


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 10:24 pm

14/f
im stressed out a lot. a lots been going on for the past year and i cant handle a lot like i use to. so i cry easily. i cry a lot because stress and stuff. and i know my boyfriend is tired of me crying,and so are my friends. i dont want to cry no more but i cant handle all of this crap. it seems like nothing worse can happen and it gets 10xs worse.
what i can i do to stop crying all the time? ill be so completely happy one second and the next i think of one thing thats happened and i then i start feeling depressed then i cry.
i dont have time or money to seek professional help. i dont want my mom to know because i need to be strong for her and my brothers. And i cant talk to any one at my school or an adult becau...

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gangsterr christmas


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 10:20 pm

14/f. I want to get this guy I like something for christmas, but I don't know what. He is 17 and ummm and junior, he is like into music and freestyling, also into bloodz, I don't know what to get him but I need to get him somethingg but not really expensizze. Advice please?

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how to make him think of me seriously?


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 10:19 pm

So, as you might predict, i like a boy.
And we flirt nonstop, and are both ridiculously attracted to each other. Thing is though, the way we flirt is a blatantly sexual--- though kind of joking--- way. Like, we're all over each other, but we laugh about it. We haven't kissed or anything, though we've gotten close to it. My worry is that he just wants to hook up or whatever, when I'm thinking more along the lines of seriously dating him. This guy is king of mixed messages, and I'm having trouble telling whether he thinks of me only in a sexual way, or as a potential girlfriend.
How do I make him think of me as a prospective gf? And how do I tell what he's thinking about me, short of reading his mind?

Answers fro...

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My Boyfriend always works and we always fight


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 10:12 pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I care about him alot. With the Christmas season here he has been having to work about 60 hours a week with no days off(since about the begining of November). Now all we do is fight. I know it is because he is stressed and exhausted and I never feel like I get to see him; I also know that it will get back to normal after holiday season calms down in about a month. I just don't know what to do to make him not hate me for fighting with him all of the time. I don't want us to break up but I don't know how to calm my mood swings and fighting so he won't get tired of me. Please help... I have been so depressed because of this.

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jewlery


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 10:08 pm

the infinity sign

i need a necklace of that for my girlfriend and i dont know where to find one.

help please

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phone convos with him


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 8:45 pm

I want to talk on the phone with a guy that I really like. How do I casually get him to call me?

15/f

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Laughing Too Much? :S


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 6:34 pm

Let me tell you something. I laugh a lot. I love hearing jokes and my friends and i can laugh for hours on end. we have so much fun. but i dunno, can laughing too much..be a bad thing? like today, i was with my boyfriend and some friends and a friend said something funny..so i laughed...thing is..i couldnt stop. i tried really hard...but i just couldn't. i almost feel like i annoy people from laughing too much, like my boyfriend. I've asked him about it and he says he loves my laugh...and that when i laugh it makes him smile. is there any chance he could still get annoyed from it? today, i had the big case of the "giggles"...and my boyfriend said "wow, you laugh at everything!" or "what's so funny...wait..that's not...

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So I like this guy..


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 6:29 pm

I know these questions can be extremely annoying but i am very confused and frustrated.

I sit next to this guy in one of my classes. I was friends with him last year and we are this year too. We arent like the kind of friends who hang out after school or anythign but we have fun when we are around eachother. Any who.. I've liked him on and off for a while. We sometimes flirt, and he seems to enjoy talking to me in class.. but theres a girl that he talks to more than me in the class (i dont think he likes her. i think they are just close friends) and she is always telling him to "come over here". If me and him are talking and she does that, then sometimes he looks upset. Another thing is that he wont say hi to me in ...

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Is he the one for me?


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 6:10 pm

Ok. Well I'm not going to give out any names.
So here I go. I like this boy, Kevin (not his real name) and he's very sweet, glamouring, charming, funny, and crazi. But there's one problem, My Sister Amber ( not her real name)Dated him a month ago. But she didn't know him. She never met him, so it really meant nothing.
He tells me how he made a mistake in dating Amber and knows he can't change it but would like to make between us better.
What do I do????
I wanna date him, but Amber date him

Sincerely, Miranda (not my real name)

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girl i like


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 5:23 pm

i went out with this girl and she broke up with me..after we broke up she said she stilled cared about me but didnt want a tilte....couple weeks later she now goes out with a nother boy...he doesnt treat her like i did and is mean to her most of the time and she told me that she doesnt want me to move on from her as a gf...i dont want to wait that long i think about her alot and i tell her that dont no what to do...does she still like me??

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My fiance said he dont want a gift but i know he does 4 his


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 5:08 pm

What should I do?

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i think i fell for him


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 4:36 pm

So there's this boy and he is so adorable. we had a talent show thing at our school and he was in it and played guiatr and sang amazingly and had to do his dream pruposal and it was amazing and soo sweet and every girl there melted inside well i know i def did. and i told myself i couldn't fall for him even though i already maybe liked him a little before. every girl now likes him and itll never happen especially since ive never even talked to him. i told myself i couuldn't fall for him but i think i did... what should i do?

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break-up help!


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 3:57 pm

I have been going out with him for about 3 months. I feel obligated to him. I feel that I can't leave him, but I want to. I see him at school, so that would be weird. He makes me so so mad, then so happy. I just want to not do this anymore. He is not confident in himself, so he uses me as a feel-good agent in his life. I don't want to do that. It's so draining and I don't have time and energy to do that!
How can I break-up with him so his feelings are not too hurt?
Thanks.

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do i back off


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 3:50 pm

me and this guy have been hooking up since like feb now and the two of us like each other we decided that a relationship wasn't something either of us wanted so we kept to just hooking up.

Recently i found out that he done stuff with one of my close friends while going out with one of my best mates which really hurt and i got really annoyed about it and when i confronted them about it they lied. But a friend told me that they were lyin so i told them i knew they were lying and she said sorry but he fell out with me. He started saying stuff about how he can't trust me. now he has started talking to me and everythings okay but i still have very strong feelings for him but but so does my friend.

I don't no wether...

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I don't know what i want anymore..


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 2:22 pm

Jay and i have been together for 2 weeks and a day and he told me he "loved" me and "cared about me more than anyone" and i asked him why...and he wouldnt answer because he thought that i'd call him "corny". i told him i didnt care and he still wouldnt tell me. my last boyfriend told me he loved me and i believed him. and i let myself fall in love with him and he swore he'd never hurt me. and he broke it off in less than 3 months. and it hurt me like crazy. and i told myself i wouldnt go out with a boy until im ready, but im such a pushover, and thats why im with jay. and truthfully, im still not over my last relationship. not in the least bit. and i most definetely dont wanna get hurt again. but i cant ever pi...

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iS tHiS LOVE?


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 1:20 pm

13/F

OKAi, WELL i HAVE tWO BOyFRiENDS
i LOVE tHEM BOtH
BUt tHEy BOtH tALK ABOUt MARRiNG ME..
tHE ONLy pROMBLEM iS i DONt KNO WHO i WANt tO B WitH, tHAtSz y i gO WitH BOtH, tHEy DONt KNO DAt yEt. BOtH OF tHEM tALK ABOUt HOW MUCH tHEY LOVE ME, BUT i CANt BREAK NOBODy'Sz HEArT..i jUst DONt KNO WHO tO CHOOSE.....&& SOMEtiMES iTSz LiKE i LOVE 1 MORE tHAN tHE OtHER...&& i WANt tHEM BOtH iN MAH LyFE..CUZ tHEYRE gREAt
BUT 1 iS COMMiTED BUT THE OTHER iSNT....
tHE ONE WHO iSNT COMMiTED WOULD CHEAt ON ME BUt tHE ONE WHO iS COMMiTED WOULDNt..BUt tHE 1 WHO OWULD CHEAt iS A FREAK, && tHE OtHER iSNt...&& i LiKE FREAKS....WHO SHOULD i CHOOSE??

&& ONE iS...

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so i like this boy.


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 12:40 pm

Theres this boy ive known for about a year now. You could say we're really good friends almost best friends. Thing is i like him and people say that they think he likes me too just cause of the way he acts but i dont know! Like he always smiles at me and ill catch him starin at me sometimes and yesterday at school he kept tellin' this boy "get the blonde girl" and when i turn around he'd just look at me nd smile. Then he wrote on my binder "devon was here lol!" and he said there that way you can think of me when your walking to class. And on the weekends he asks if im going to hang out with him and i did and he told me to come back at 830 and to make sure i did and i did but he wasn't home. What do you guys think given ...

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