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I don't know what i want anymore..
Jay and i have been together for 2 weeks and a day and he told me he "loved" me and "cared about me more than anyone" and i asked him why...and he wouldnt answer because he thought that i'd call him "corny". i told him i didnt care and he still wouldnt tell me. my last boyfriend told me he loved me and i believed him. and i let myself fall in love with him and he swore he'd never hurt me. and he broke it off in less than 3 months. and it hurt me like crazy. and i told myself i wouldnt go out with a boy until im ready, but im such a pushover, and thats why im with jay. and truthfully, im still not over my last relationship. not in the least bit. and i most definetely dont wanna get hurt again. but i cant ever picture myself loving jay, i mean love him like a brother or something, but never being romantically involved. should i end it or just keep going on like this? and when he says he loves me, how can i find out for sure? how do i know hes not just saying it because he thinks hes supposed to? or for another perverted teenage boy reason?
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if you don't want to be with jay like that and you're not ready for more love, i'd say end it. there's nothing wrong with a best friend, ya know? tell him that and talk to him about your doubt if he really loves you.
if personally you're not ready for a serious relationship and you can't get over your ex, don't do something you don't want. you might need time to just think for yourself and have fun. love isn't something you NEED. honestly, the right love with come along and you won't have to worry about it.
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well you should ask him why he went out with you for the first time. And ask him if your pretty and tell him how you feel about him and that you want to know truly if he loves you because your last boyfriend said that and he broke up with you.
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Truthfully, I'd end it with Jay. I never date anyone I don't see myself being with in the future. If you know things won't work out, then why waste your time? Right? And if you have only been going out with him for 2 weeks, he doesn't love you. Love takes time, and trust. You don't love someone in that small amount of time, trust me. And when that one person comes along someday and says he loves you, you'll be able to tell if he truly means it.
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If you can't see yourself EVER being with him, even though there is a possibility that he loves you and just isn't ready to sound stupid, then end it. Don't lead him on and do what your last boyfriend did to you. But if there is even a 2% possibility of loving him, don't let this go. It might turn out to be the best thing you've ever had later on in life. Give it timeee! But, just because your last boyfriend hurt you...it isn't Jay's fault. At some point in your life, you have to learn to trust and fall in love and stop blaming other for your heartbreak.
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