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So I like this guy..
I know these questions can be extremely annoying but i am very confused and frustrated.
I sit next to this guy in one of my classes. I was friends with him last year and we are this year too. We arent like the kind of friends who hang out after school or anythign but we have fun when we are around eachother. Any who.. I've liked him on and off for a while. We sometimes flirt, and he seems to enjoy talking to me in class.. but theres a girl that he talks to more than me in the class (i dont think he likes her. i think they are just close friends) and she is always telling him to "come over here". If me and him are talking and she does that, then sometimes he looks upset. Another thing is that he wont say hi to me in the hall. Well, I'll say hi to him or try to start a conversation, and he'll seem like he doesnt want to talk to me. Well basically.. in class when we are talking, I think he likes me, but in the hall or when the other girl interferes i doubt it.
What can I do to make him more interested? I'm scared he thinks of me as a girl who will just be a friend.
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You should try and make him more comfortab;e around you. I know, that isn't easy to do when he doesn't talk to you in the hall but does in class. But think about this for a second:
could it be in the slightest way possible that he's already got a girlfriend? I mean it's not natural for somebody to do that unless there's somebody whom he's going out with who isn't in your class but in the hall at the same time.
I know that you like him and i completly respect that, but when girls are constantly calling him over and talking to him, he could be getting worried because he might feel like as if he might get pulled into a relationship which he doesn't want to have.
Just play it out for a while and see what happens, ask him if he's seeing someone else and if he isn't, forget all of the above and ask him why he doesn't speak to you. It could also be that he doesn't want a realtionship with anybody at the moment, who knows until you ask him.
Good luck with the future
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you really cant do much to make him like you.
be yourself because if you're somebody else, he MIGHT start liking that somebody else and you cant be yourself.
if he cant accept who you really are, then its not worth taking the risk.
i hope i helped.
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