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do i back off
me and this guy have been hooking up since like feb now and the two of us like each other we decided that a relationship wasn't something either of us wanted so we kept to just hooking up.
Recently i found out that he done stuff with one of my close friends while going out with one of my best mates which really hurt and i got really annoyed about it and when i confronted them about it they lied. But a friend told me that they were lyin so i told them i knew they were lying and she said sorry but he fell out with me. He started saying stuff about how he can't trust me. now he has started talking to me and everythings okay but i still have very strong feelings for him but but so does my friend.
I don't no wether to back off or tell her i like him and let her decide what she wants me to do. I'm just soo confused because i don't know if he still likes me that way and when we talk about what happens he jst blanks it because he doesn't want to talk. But at a party a few nights ago he hardly spoke to me and when he left he came and gave me a kiss on the cheek which meant alot too me
sorry its long but lifes complicated right now lol
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You don't back away, you run away. The guy said he can't trust you because you ruined his fun. You really weren't interested in a relationship with this guy until you found about about him being with your friends. It seems you are more interesting in "winning" than really having a relationship. If you didn't want the guy when he was all yours you shouldn't want him now. You really should walk away. I'm not saying that you shouldn't be friends with him. You just need to cut him off though. This really is a mess. You may lose a couple of friends and the guy. I think if you walk away if nothing else it gives you control of the situation. If he can hook up with you whenever he wants, why would he pursue you? He has what he wants. The guy has cheated on one of your friends. He just doesn't seem like much of a catch to be honest. Surely you can do better. I do apologize about my harshness. I mean no ill will. Being direct seemed to make the most sense. I hope I was of some help. :)
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depends how long you and your friend been friends for and if he went out with your friend i would tell him how you feel and that you are hurt. And tell him that you did not go out with an other guy because you were wating to go out with him and so you tell him that you might find another boy. Make him jealouse and date his friend that is cute.
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Why is it you and your friends are fighting over or sharing one guy...who is not even worth it? He has used you all, hasn't he and he is the one getting away with it. He does not want to trouble himself with honesty or commitment. He will use as many of you girls as you allow him to do and then he will be done with you and move onto the next girl and her friend and whoever else. The reason he said he can't trust you is to shift the blame onto you so you will not wise up to what he is doing. There is a fox in the henhouse my dear. Don't waste your time thinking he might choose any of you for long...he will always be looking to chase more chicks...
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