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espin the bottle
im 16/f. i've been really lonely, and single, for a long time now, and since i'm too shy too go up to guys, i've decided to finally take action, while taking another approach. i recently created an account on espinthebottle.com, but i've been debating on wether or not i should post pictures. since my teachers are young and most of them go on dating sites, i'm scared that they, or anyone else that lives nearby who might know me, will by some chance come across me. i'd be humiliated. will anyone else who has an account, or any expertise at all on the site give me some advice [i have other questions about it]. thanXx in advance.
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Online sites like that really aren't looked down upon by younger people. If you are worried about it being a dating site, there are lots of other social sites out there that are listed more as networking sites than dating ones. Almost all such sites, are more often used as daitng type sites anyhow. I would give this tip though. Do not put up things like "Are there any honest guys left?". Any headlines that make you come across as if you are jaded, will scare both good and bad guys away. You are lonely and new to the dating sites. Be careful, when new to it, it is very very easy to believe someone is perfect. Talk to lots of different guys and try to not focus on one right away. It will let you know that alot sound very good at first. I think it will also help you to not fall for the first nice guy that comes along. Newbies fall in love very easily. But these sites are a wonderful way to make some great friends. It helps with confidence and also helps develop some social skills. Don't worry about teachers seeing you on. They wouldn't think any more about that than if they saw you at the mall.
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A lot of people go on dating sites nowadays, so it's not looked down upon as it was when they first came out. Don't worry about it.
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You don't have to worry about your teachers going on, the youngest you can be to be on the website is 17 - as it is a dating website for TEENS.
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Thank you, I meant the OLDEST you can be on the website is 17, the youngest is 13. My bad.
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well since you are 16 as long as you put that on your profile you should be fine. your teachers won't have your profile show up, because I imagine that they have put an age limit on how young they want the person to be, and I imagine the lowest age they would put would be 20.
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