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is it true love or me avoiding the truth.


Posted Sunday December 16 2007, 6:03 pm

so i used to like this guy, but he got into really bad things, and i just got "unattracted" to him, but in reality, i always think about him but i would never want to hook up with him.
so to get my mind off of him, i started to like this guy who i barely know. i see him sometimes at school, and the most i get is a hug. never anything else. i really like him now, but i dont know if im doing it because i just want to get my mind off the other guy, or if i actually like him. although i dont know him well enough to actually like him. what are some ways i can get more out of him?

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ugh xmas gift boyfriend.


Posted Sunday December 16 2007, 11:07 am

15/f
dating my boyfriend for a year && a half; hes 15 too. were serious about our relationship, dont doubt our age. anyways i really have no idea what to make/get him for xmas. i just bought him a shirt && made him a pillow that said i love you. hes not really into jewlery, has plenty of shoes, doesn't play video games.. he wrestles. but i have no idea what to make/get himm! ah help? =)

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how do i get him to believe me


Posted Sunday December 16 2007, 4:50 am

well my ex is at again... he told my bf that i cheated on him with an ex from years ago who isnt even in town and lives far away...wtf...well now my bf and ex are becoming good buddies and my bf said he was sorry for asuming in an email but then when i talked to him he said he jsut wants to drop it and he dont believe me but he jsut wants ot be with me so bad that he dont care... ok if i cheated would i be here trying to figure it out... no and i didnt and i swear on my life.... how do i get him to believe me... ps i have cheated on him once before but so has he... so taht makes it harder please help

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I liked this guy forever and I want him to know.


Posted Sunday December 16 2007, 12:17 am

16/f. I've liked a certain guy, lets call him A, since I was 11 in the 6th grade. That's a pretty long time. We are both now sophomores. Its a major crush. This guy...I'm like in love with him. I don't even think it's infatuation..because its just been there for such a long time. I dream about him, when I see him, my heart just beats really quickly...I always want to impress him. He notices me, but doesn't say anything. Just kinda...puts his head down...and listens to what I'm saying to my friends (JUST TO GAIN HIS ATTENTION =[) He smiles at me a lot.
When we make eye contact in class, he smiles. He nods...there's this certain understanding between us (we both speak Russian) But I don't know if he likes me or if he doesn't. Thing is...

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gossip


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 11:37 pm

i reveal some things i shouldn't have said to someone cause im affraid he might tell his girlfriend which i totally hate, what do you think its best to do to kind of make what i said sound less important so he will think like oh its something that doesn't even matter ?

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how can i tell he likes me, what's going on?


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 9:24 pm

hey everyone, i'd really appreciate your time and input, i'll keep it short :)
there's this sweet guy i've known for about a year now, he's not like other guys i've seen: he's a great listener, very observant, humble, and kind to everyone.
we've known each other for about a year now, and have the same group of friends, didn't know him that well then. but recently he's opened up a little. i've noticed he laughs a lot at my jokes, moreso than other people do, (and they're not all that funny). it could just be that he's nice. but just recently he started to touch my arm, gesture to me, get my attn. over little things and mentions my name a lot(i'm excluding some tidbits to shorten this). a lot of girls are attracted to him, and h...

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confidence,


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 7:31 pm

is confidence really sexy to a guy?, like cause i don't think i'm super attractive, but my personality is pretty good, but i just wanna know if guys like a girl whos confident?
&other ways to know if a guy is into you.

thankss.

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hookup-ish with brothers friend


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 5:51 pm

recently at a party..my brothers friend was like flirting with all my friends. he is like a total player and just wants a girl pretty much. especially when he is drunk haha. well i got a little drunk that night, and he was helping my up the stairs and stuff, then he slept in the same bed as me..we didnt do anything, but like major cuddling and stuff..and he tried to kiss me, and i backed off, im pretty sure, but i was a little buzzed at that point so idk if i did back, but i dont think so. anyways, i kept telling him to leave, and when he didnt i had to walk him to somewhere else to sleep. i feel awkward now, and i am really nervous for when my brother brings him over again. ok so what should i do..like just act normal? avoid him? its gonna...

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what is he doing!?


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 2:44 pm

Okay so there is this kid i have been liking for a VERY long time. lets call him aaron.

Well me and aaron are REALLY good friends and stuff and i knew he has been liking this girl dana for a while. So one day me and him both went over our friend chris's house. And he was like flirting with me MAJORLY!! always getting so close to me. And then when we all went home chris asked aaron if he liked me and he said idk. and then chris asked aaron if he still liked dana and he said no.

but then like after that he kepty ignoring me in the hallways, and like not talking to me as much idk why. I was first on his myspace top and now im like last and the 2nd girl.

But then like dana told chris to tell aaron sh...

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How do I show him how I feel this holiday?


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 2:43 pm

My boyfriend and I live about 40 minutes away and usually only get to see each other two or three times a week because we're both so busy. Sometimes its a stressful realtionship but its worth ever single moment.

Last night when he came over he gave me my Christmas present saying he couldn't wait any longer. It was a diamond necklace. An extremely expensive diamond necklace. Let me just say here that he's only a junior in highschool and has a part time job at Staples.

I was having trouble before trying to think of what to give him. But now its even harder. What says I love you without being too much? And how can I compair with his gesture? I'm not saying this is a competition of who can get who the better gift ...

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kissing.


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 12:01 pm

my boyfriend's birthday is the 30th.
i have literally no money, so as my present for him, he's going to come over to my house and hang out for a while.
i plan on watching a movie of some sort, but since he's picking it out, i don't know what type it will be.
and i know the type it is will set a mood too.
but the point to all of this is, i want to kiss him (we haven't kissed before.)
i'm more nervous than i should be, and i don't really know how to go about it.
i'm kind of shy (getting a lot better though :] ) and he's a little shy too.
any advice helps at all, thanks.
(:

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i need help on how to now if this guy ive been crushing on l


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 7:03 am

I'm from Algeria but live in Pakistan..I'am 15.. and i need serious help! so.. i have been having a crush on this guy named Bob for about 2 years now, we used to talk allot ... and last year we had a huge fight and that changed everything! so i didn't talk to him for about three or four months.. and wen i did start talking to him on the internet i also started doing other things... like i would strip for him on the web cam... i really like him! one night i was online talking to him so he told me too talk to one of his friends, his name was Ali!! so i did and I've never meet this ali guy before an he asked me out an i said yes because hes nice an hot! lol, i asked Ali why did you ask me out you've never seen me before! and he said that Bob ...

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lovelife


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 6:02 am

who is my soulmate

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is he or is he not interested? confused :s


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 4:28 am

so the other day i sent this guy i met a mesaje to meet up the next day or when he was free and have a drink or something to get to know eachother and all... he rang back after a while( i thought he wouldnt) and he said that he was busy at work and that was why he took long to answer... to cut the long story short, he said that he really wanted to see me again but that he was tied with work and stuff and that he would give me a call the next day sometime too see when we would meet. Thing is i assumed he would but he never did ring, he didnt even send a mesaje to say he couldnt... now i am a bit confused should i be angry at him for not or am i blowing it out of proportion? should i give him another chance to hear his side? or assume he isnt...

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exboyfriend...


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 4:07 am

ok i broke up with my boyfriend cause he was starting to become a very flirty person =| worse part i talk to him about this about how this was m y only reason to brake up with him cause hes all the time meeting new girls that are obviously itnerested on him (by the comments they say to him) and he just doesn't see that as a bad thing ,not even when he kind of encourage them to keep that behavior towards him, i told him that if i see that he changes maybe we'll get back , but i just found that he's still like that ( he tells me he deleted them adn block them at msn and i found out he didn't ) it seems like he just doesn't trust me enough to say hey i got this new female friend..he always has to be hidding them from me :S saying things like ...

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making out :[


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 1:08 am

so, theres this boy i like a lot and we might even date. but the pronlem is that all the relationships i've been in before weren't that serious, maybe a hug or a kiss sometimes but not much really. and now that im older im kinda worried because i know when your older and in a relashionship you make out or go further, and i've always worrid about that kinda stuff. i really want to do this stuff but im scared ill mess up and embaress myself, help!!!!

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GAHH,ihatethese.


Posted Saturday December 15 2007, 12:16 am

I am not a "love" person . Annd , I do usually ignore these posts and keep who I like secert , Usually hiding it by saying I don't like anyone .
Plus , I don't agree with dating at my age .
So , As horrible as it is , I have began to like someone . Not gonna lie , He's ughh very full of himself >.>
ANYWAYS , I do indeed try to ignore him , Keep away XDD .Butt , He talks to me and I don't mean to sound rude but ignoring someone when they start to talk to you is rather hard . Espically in dance .
I wont go into grieve detail why he's full of himself , He just is .
So , In other words Im a confused girl .
Well , How do I not give him the wrong impression ? I guess XDD .


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=[


Posted Friday December 14 2007, 11:22 pm

honestly people,
i hate everything. my family. my friends. my school. my cheerleading team. i cant take anything anymore..someone please help me.

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UGH, THERE JUST SO ANNOYING!


Posted Friday December 14 2007, 10:06 pm

hey whatsup. my names casey.
im in 7th grade and im thirteen.i live in bermingham alabama & i go to a christian middleschool, so theres only one class per grade [sucks i know]. But lately the boys in my grade have been really immature. All they talk about is how "hot" the eigth grade girls are, and they never talk to US anymore they just talk to the eigth grade girls. They say were jealous of them. I say NOOO. Girls like to date older guys...am i right? Well then why the hell are these losers non-stop flirting with the boys in our class!?! They have their OWN boys in THEIR class!!
The point is: i dont know wat to do about getting the boys to notice that we [seventh graders] have something to offer to NOT JUST O...

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Pointless


Posted Friday December 14 2007, 7:39 pm

Kaay, so I'm pretty sure this is pointless.
Anyways, I'm fourteen and turning 15 in March, and I'm not experinced with guys. Like I've never made out with a guy. And I'm like always single. I mean I'm not ugly. But I'm really shy and it feels like I can never get a guy. I mean I've been dating guys but guys over online. But I'm going to stop because I really hate seeing couples out and about and me being lonely. It gets me sad, because you ALWAYS hear about your friend and her boyfriend. It drives me crazy. Is there anyway I can break my shell, I mean I've cracked it, because I like talk to guys a lot more. But I don't feel comforable dating guys in my school, esp. in my grade because they all act like little kids, yahkno?
So ...

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