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confidence,
is confidence really sexy to a guy?, like cause i don't think i'm super attractive, but my personality is pretty good, but i just wanna know if guys like a girl whos confident?
&other ways to know if a guy is into you.
thankss.
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Confidence is the key to almost everything, but you'd better be able to back it up, too. It is a matter of sincerity and not being an imitation of the real deal. Believe in yourself...your authentic self and be okay with your human weaknessess as well as your strengths. Confidence is not about thinking you are better than others or perfect by any means. It means you are good with your self and comfortable in your own skin...the world is a better place for having you in it.
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look at it this way: wouldn't it be akward for you to be dating a guy who isn't confident with himself? if they like you, they like you the way you are. you not being confident in yourself is like you not being confident in the girl that he likes. (i'm sorry, that may just be one of those things that only makes sense to me...oops!) remember, guys are self concious too. they just dont seem to whine about it as much as girls. so be confident in who you are as a person.
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that's a good question, you'd think all guys would like personality over looks, but unfortunately it doesn't apply to all of them.
it you have confidence in yourself, and that shows through in much more clarity than if you were a drop dead gorgeous model. whether that is counted as sexy or not to a guy, know that the personality factor that you have is what will make you happy and successful, and maybe you'll find someone in the midst of your achievements! good luck and keep being yourself!
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Here's a theroy for you: to guys, girls are like oreo cookies. But when most eat an oreo, they go for the inside. then the outside. So why dont most guys go for the inside?? You occasionally get that two out of five that go for personality and not just looks.
Guys dont like to hear girls put themselves down, whether it be your friend, brother, or boyfriend. They hate it. Its a big turnoff. And i also know quite a few guys who dont like girls who dont eat. Like if they had to choose between a salad or a big mac, they would want them to choose the big mac.
this site might help you out...
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There are different ways to be confident. There are good ways and bad ways. What it mainly means is not pointing out all your flaws and moaning about yourself. "I'm so ugly!" "My legs are so fat" .. No guy wants to hear that. and it's most likely to turn them off than attract them. Same with girls - you can be attracted to someone by looking at them but if you get to know them and find out they constantly put themselves down and have very low self esteem, it's quite the turn off isn't it?
Just be yourself and don't put yourself down.
There are plenty of sites to help you with your last question. Like this for example:
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